I think he means the circumstances of the A in general...

Just acknowledging how painful the truth can be.

edit: MFer beat me to it.

Want2Stay

Ohhhhh....I was a little confused.

Yes, the A was the most devastating thing I have ever had to deal with. I am, though, beginning to come out on the other side and can see the light at the end of the tunnel. The polygraph and knowing that FWH is and has been telling the truth makes a huge diffence. I finally feel that I can begin to forgive him for what he did. I feel differently about a lot of things now,after the polygraph, compared to last week and the past year before.

I know that we still have a long, long way to go but we are working hard and most days our marriage is 150% better than it was pre-A. I look at that as a gift from God for enduring what I have been through.

To me, even with the circumstances of why he took the polygraph, it's still "Congrat's" that he passed and is telling the truth and that our Marriage can begin to heal and recover...
JoJo

One less obstacle to deal with...

Good news Jo.

Black~Raven......I think, for me, it was a monumental obstacle. It was what I have been needed for months. For the first time in a year (Dday1 was a year ago today) I know for a fact that my H is telling the truth and that his tears are true remorsefulness and not a way to hide deceit.