Gotta wonder if the poor guy is AFRAID to go the polygraph route when he is coming apart at the seams from what he already knows. I think it should be up to HIM at this point.

And, lindz, remember that it is only about a month since he had another couple of D-days. He is still reeling. And this is the second round.

He is raging about like a wounded animal, and while that's understandable, it is NOT acceptable. Please call the MB counseling center. You both really need some sanity at this point, and they are a really good source of it.

And I do believe if you could get him to post here, we could help him. So many of us have BTDT. He needs information, empathy and soothing. I hope he will accept it from an MB coach and/or from these boards.

((((lindz and BH))))

Right Here Waiting

Me BS 61
Him FWS 63
Married 40 years
D-Day 6/30/06
Still can't believe it.
6/08 Recovering nicely. Anything is possible!