Originally Posted by arkhawk1
Wow, 6 months. Was he at least trying during that time? Did it just click with him one day?

Arkhawk,

You've not been here in a while--how is it going?

To answer the question above, yes, it was 6 months before I got any feeling that FWH was really engaging. But that's when I got the feeling about that. He says now that he was trying from the beginning, but it sure didn't look like it to me.

Maybe it took 6 months for him to evidence signs of being "in love" with me...perhaps it took 6 months for him to FEEL it. I worked hard, but not without falling short with AO's in those early months. It was VERY stressful for me. Was for him too, but I guess in a different way.

I hope you are both at least still sitting in the caboose of the recovery train.

Let us know how you're doing.


Me BS 61
Him FWS 63
Married 40 years
D-Day 6/30/06
Still can't believe it.
6/08 Recovering nicely. Anything is possible!