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bump, for jah and myself, both struggling with wanting to break plan B and contact our WS with our anger
Me, BS: 35
WxH: 36 "HAM" Hearts a mess
6yo DS (with WxH), 9 and 12yo DDs from first marriage
Discovered DH's affair in June, 2011
"I'm not having an affair, you're crazy." major gaslighting
Served with divorce papers on 2/3/12
Divorce final 7/29/2013
Living day by day, counting my blessings, loving my children
Personal Recovery well underway!
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Thank you Ark for taking the time to start this. Look how it is helping so many years later.
I dont know HOW to be still. Doesn't that sound crazy? I don't know what to do with all the pain that I have, the worry that I have. I try to give it to God, but within no time at all, I have taken it back. I know I can't do this without God, but I don't know HOW to give it to Him, let him KEEP it or to be still. I have not had peace for sooooo long, that I don't think I will ever have it again.
BS Me 47,WH 49
DS's x3 17, 10, 7
Multiple D-Days
No disclosure by WH. No EP's, no transparency, no guilt or remorse either.
Plan C DOES NOT WORK!
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