It's not shocking, it ROCKS!

The two who I suspect are not here any longer. Not sure how many others or who it was that also emailed her...maybe it knocked some sense into her. Doubt it, she's pretty dense, but one can hope.

And I did not ask for this to happen...I simply linked the site where I exposed and others found her profile with her email addy in it, I guess. Not a good idea to be screwing a MM with all of your personal info out there.

NH,

""Now he says that we have had problems for years. Of course, there was the usual stuff, money and intimacy (what else is there)? And, we've never seen a counselor for any issues. He said he didn't think it would help AND he's a therapist!!!""

For what it is worth, this is right out of the "WayWard Fog Manuel" under the 'Rewriting History' chapter. We have had problems for many years, I never loved you, I love you but am not IN love with you, seeing a therapist will not help, blah, blah, blah..."AND I SHOULD KNOW BECAUSE I AM A THERAPIST" Said with a haughty and priggish tone of voice and face.

With all the liberal academics at this place the employees probably approve and are happy for the adulterous couple. Management may have a different take on it though.

Most companies have employee handbooks that dictate what is appropriate and what is not as far as inter-office romances go. They are usually frowned upon or prohibited because of the very real threat of sexual harassment claims, plus the disruptive nature of an inner office affair while it is going on and then after the breakup!

So, "What typically happens if an affair is exposed to an employer?" They could be reprimanded or one or both could be let go. Specially if one is the supervisor of the other, then it becomes more of a threat to management.

kirk

Your husband is simply telling you he hasn't been happy for years because he is rewriting marital history to attempt to justify his abhorrent behavior.

He is a liar.

When his lips move - think "blah blah blah".

Every now and then, something might make a little sense. It takes some time to scrape through the crappola to figure out what might be important. For now, don't try. Focus on yourself, and your Plan A.

You know that he has been happy. That garbage is garbage. Straight from the script. Somewhere, there is an ongoing wayward convention where they consult with one another and feed the words into one another's heads.

SB