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Everyone enjoy their tour of Casa del Pariah?


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GG, it wasn't that long ago.

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Originally Posted by Greengables
Oh, my. I think I vaguely remember something.... I've obviously been around here too long.

If you even mention his name, you get modded down.



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Does his name start with an "M"?

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I guess you see too. wink


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No way! Really????


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Granted the last few months have been a bit foggy for me.


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It looks like the whoe thread on Divorcing has been erased.


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Follow the rabbit to my facebook page and there might be a link to the article in the paper.


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Pariah,

If you haven't already left the building for good, would you send me an email to the address in my signature. I'd like to ask you a quick question.

Thanks!!!

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I'll join ya! If you want me....to......lol!

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Bubbles, why are you here?

I've read every one of your posts and yet there is no sign of any affair.

Are you here for some sort of voyure adventure?

It's insulting to us who have lived this hell.


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Yeah my blood still boils at OM too. In fact several times I prevented myself from going nuclear. One time I slammed the door of a friends house (so I wouldn't intrude inside and finish off the OM) and it wouldn't open again.
There needs to be a thread.
"Give me the address of OM I'll take care of him for ya."
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I think most people have not had to deal with seeing the OM show off humping motions to his collegues with you the only person knowing that it was your wife. Then having to deal with his stupid stare across workplaces all day. I don't think most people had to deal with working underneath the very guys that betrayed and backstabbed you. While the OM along with his collegues calls your wife a bi!@# to you, he calls you a [censored] to your wife. Then uses your lines to win your wife over to him when you respond in many different ways on how much you love your wife to the OM.

I still freaking love my wife, but he slandered the heck out of me or something. She hates me now.

Cya pariah, I probably will never marry again too.

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Originally Posted by Pariah
Bubbles, why are you here?

I've read every one of your posts and yet there is no sign of any affair.

Are you here for some sort of voyure adventure?

It's insulting to us who have lived this hell.


Pariah, I don't think Bubbles has done anything insulting. There is no proof an affair in my first marriage. I hope my presence isn't an insult.


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Yeah, I didn't suffer any infidelity either. I was suspicious of it. As far as I know, that's not the only reason to be here. I stay because I feel like I'll always have a lot to learn. The people here keep me thinking and I hope that the different threads here will help to keep me from backsliding into prior behaviors that helped kill my M. I like to think that my experiences and observations are helpful to others as well.

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Seabird and GG, you BOTH came here with problems did you not?

I have read every post and found no evidence other than re: posts.

Like this was some sort of social networking site and post padding..

I have trouble trusting anyone who's motives are not clear and in the open period and I will question it every time.

Being a master snooper and my instincts are well honed, I have yet to be mistaken.

Brain injury doesn't mean stupid.


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Hi, I am here now because I guess I just like you all. MB helped me so much with my own marriage issues (many of you remember around 3 years ago) it took me three or four years of persistance to get my marriage on good footing. Remember my husband did not want as much sex as I did and I was very very insecure? I had painful times back then, then I got cancer, etc. Anyhow we worked out many many problems in my own marriage (thanks to MB) and now my marriage is strong. Not perfect but stronger.

So, if you guys think I should not be here, or maybe should stick to the EN board I will do that. Sometimes I may be able to help, sometimes not. No problem.


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I have been on MB under a few different names for like,,,7 years!!! Wow has it been that long...I really need to get off of here.

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You just keep changing names with no reference in your sig to clarify.

That's all.



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Stella, Baba, !

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