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More hugs and good thoughts to you, White.
BS - 60
WH - 67
Married 24 years, together 25
D-Day - 02/09/2009
Trying to enter Recovery
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I'm feeling better-ish again. We really have rounded some kind of corner. MY H is more and more present, and the alien less and less in attendance. For the first time since January, I can dream of our future, because I know it's there. Do we have stuff to work on? SURE. But who doesn't? My point is that we ARE on a path. We ARE making progress. It's amazing to consider that I had felt like I was on a rollercoaster in perpetual climb, hearing everything creak and wondering just how long we'd be fighting to go up hill, and now I can truly say I see and feel that we have indeed crested, and are on the path DOWN from the erupting volcano... and my stomach isn't turning like long rollercoasters cause, either. It's comfortable to live here again. I seriously am thankful that people slapped me hard enough to make me stand up and challenge this, rather than continuing to writhe in pain and wallow, because standing up changed EVERYTHING. We're going to make it.
BS, 28 WH, 36 11/08-? EA(s?), no PA's, lied (net&women) MLC end 5/09? Enter R  M 2000 Child, 5.5 yrs
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Still chugging right along. We actually talked more, this morning, about meeting eachothers needs. As in, not just HIS...
Moving right along...
BS, 28 WH, 36 11/08-? EA(s?), no PA's, lied (net&women) MLC end 5/09? Enter R M 2000 Child, 5.5 yrs
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I'm so very happy to hear that, WR. Isn't it nice to know the light at the end of the tunnel is not a train?
Hang in there, stay strong and walk tall!
BS - 60
WH - 67
Married 24 years, together 25
D-Day - 02/09/2009
Trying to enter Recovery
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Here's where I take it to Recovery Thread
BS, 28 WH, 36 11/08-? EA(s?), no PA's, lied (net&women) MLC end 5/09? Enter R M 2000 Child, 5.5 yrs
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