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Hello hello... everything is dated from May!! Spooky around here.
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Hi! It's a little lonely in here. Oddly enough, I checked my post count, and it's the count from when the forum went down and not May. Weird . . .
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D-days: too many to keep track of, but last one on 4/3/10
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Hi everyone, I am back on my old User Name - have tried to register bestrongforyou again but then I can see only a small amount of forums. Maybe it's time to start a brand new thread and put all info in one place for a change  for me anyway
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Spooky around here.
Well, it's almost Halloween. Maybe they WANTED it to be spooky.
Hi Faithful. Hope life is good.
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I think sometimes about all the pain in the world. I hope we can ease that here, even if only a little bit.
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Question is, will it stay the way it is now, or will they do a further restore and get all the other threads back.
If anyone is in the know, feel free to comment.
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I think sometimes about all the pain in the world. I hope we can ease that here, even if only a little bit.
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Hi SS! My guess would be they will eventually be able to restore the old threads. They always seem to pull off miracles.
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I wouldn't have known it was back up yet, but I rebooted after an upgrade, and didn't get an error message on my browser for MB when I started the browser back up. Surprise, Surprise, the site is back up. Sort of.
I guess we'll see what happens. I wouldn't care at all about these (brand new) posts if they can get all the other regular threads back.
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I think sometimes about all the pain in the world. I hope we can ease that here, even if only a little bit.
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Man, I hate it when this place disappears. So much to talk about in the news, too, regarding infidelity, and this is one place where I can do that.
Hope they get the rest of the threads back, but I wouldn't count on it. Folks may just want to start their own "Update" threads and we'll go from there.
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WH cheated in corporate workplace for many years. He moved out and filed in summer 2008.
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Hey y'all...missed me some MB and now MB seems to missing some MB as well. Hope this won't involve another down-week...I can't take it.  Mr. Wondering
FBH(me)-51 FWW-49 (MrsWondering)
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"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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I was going through MB withdrawals... I MISSED you all so very much.
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
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Welllllllllllll---- We are at least back up BUT, as you can see, we have LOTS of repairing & fixing to still do. Some of you are going to have problems logging on. The techs said we may have lost some of the newer members registrations. Let me know if you do have problems and I'll see if there's anything I can do. The forums we have up now are the old ones before we did the redo. We will be fixing them again as time permits. The tech's are still working on getting the old posts & threads back, so try to be patient. If you have problems or questions, contact me. I sure don't have all the answers but we can TRY!! 
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JustUss, you are all so awesome!
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So what happened Justuss? Was it some sort of attack? Failure?
I missed MB so much!
Thanks for keeping us informed.
Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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“In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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OMG I have been wandering around lost....I really thought I lost my MB friends forever...even if it is just reading posts this site is like my lifeline..You guys are the only ones who get it, ya know? I had so much to post and now I have just screwed everything up more...If that is even possible. Everyday I would try to get in and now I was so surprized that i got in...Hope everyone is doin okay... Miss you guys.
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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stillhere, how are you - 2 weeks felt like an eternity - good to be back
I think I will start posting from scratch with a little recap of our story and where I am at today
Last edited by bestrongforyou; 10/22/09 03:40 PM.
BS:35(me)
WH:32
DS 12/8
OW1: 2004 EA/PA?
ILYBNILWY 4/09
OW2 2008/2009 EA/PA?
Separated: 06/14/09
D-Day: OW3 PA 06/20/09
Am I married to a Serial Cheater?
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Eh, Im okay..Thanks..The question is how are you doin?
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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Ill be lookin for your new thread BS4Y
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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Yes WE KNOW..... Missed you too. It's kinda like Noah must have felt coming out of the Ark after 40 days. 
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
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I am not too bad actually - a quick recap what happened the last 2 weeks:
WH is still abroad - after the initial 2 weeks work abroad he got another 2 weeks work which is good financially for us. He gave up his flat and is due back in Ireland early next week. Remember when he was in Ireland last I had the keylogger installed and got the password to his general email account - I am keeping an eye on him a little that way.
I also have now his second secret email address - just missing the password but working on it.
Financially WH is starting to spend - he racked up a phone bill of $ 1500 for his mobile phone - don't ask me how he managed it -also his general spending abroad is now higher then spending for the 3 of us here at home - so there is something going on for sure. I am still in Plan A as much as I can - we had 2 nice phone conversations the last 4 weeks - no lovebusting from my side and nothing nasty surprisingly from his side.
Now the downside: He hasn't called the kids once and he is gone nearly a month.I'd love to give him a piece of my mind in that regard but keep that to myself for now.
BS:35(me)
WH:32
DS 12/8
OW1: 2004 EA/PA?
ILYBNILWY 4/09
OW2 2008/2009 EA/PA?
Separated: 06/14/09
D-Day: OW3 PA 06/20/09
Am I married to a Serial Cheater?
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Hey Queenie, I hope you are doin well. I really dont look on the recovery thread and I admit it is because of pure jealousy. But I am always thinkin of you and see your posts over here sometimes.
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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