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 One puking icon just doesn't seem enough. Reading that made my skin crawl and it's awful trigger inducing to read the cr*p that waywards write to each other. Those poor BS's. They must be reeling and the way they go from smutty sex talk to saying hi the the BH just makes me seethe and some more. Nasty, nasty, nasty! FWIW, I totally agree with Kiwi and Lil. Looks are totally irrelevant in A's.
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Those poor BS's. They must be reeling and the way they go from smutty sex talk to saying hi the the BH just makes me seethe and some more. I think "Jake" and "Trevor" are the WW's kids. "Jake" appears to be a toddler (note the reference to a high chair). The BH seems to be "Don", mentioned a bit earlier in the thread, where the WW alludes to making a "night time raid" if "Don" leaves on Sunday night. It's all puke-worthy still, and quite triggering, in a strange way. I say so because my FWW says that she never engaged in such banter with the OM, but I don't believe her. She would not have done it via e-mail (that's just TOO stupid IMO), but she would have used IM and a separate account created just for that purpose (she used four or five IM accounts during the course of her A).
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The stuff OW and my husband wrote back and forth on Gmail chat was just nauseating. I didn't read a whole lot of their emails; by the time I'd hacked in, H had erased a lot of the stuff that was there--he knew I was suspicious. But I did grab the live chats and some emails and they were disgusting enough. Reading that exchange was a huge trigger for me, too.
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After reading that I am SO glad STOWVD is computer illiterate.
The worst I found were sappy/stupid greeting cards with lurve notes that were straight out of jr. high.
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A's are NEVER about looks, never.
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Yeah I didn't have to deal with internet stuff, both FWH and xOW did not spend much time on the net. But I did read a "diary" she wrote for him, countless notes, cards, CD she burned for him and listened to a bunch of VM's that (ha ha on her) he had NEVER even listened to!
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I think the banter is hot and sexy.
If ONLY neither of them were married and they weren't doing this banter during work hours (really!)
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Don't ya think his wife or her hubby would like some of this ooohlaaalaaa talk and fun aimed at them?! Of course they would!
Sheesh.
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If they were married (to each other) and bantering like this over the course of 6 hours...they'd be.....
MARRIAGE BUILDERS POSTER CHILDREN!
Talk about romantic love! And instead of puking, we'd be saying..wow.... awwww.......how incredibly sweet and sexy.
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wow DUDE that must have been rough atleast when WS chooses better person (looks/jobs wise i mean) than BS then the BS has something high to aim for but what do you do when OW is just all out worse in every sense like in your case?? PARTY LIKE A FRIGGIN ROCKSTAR!!! DUDE
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Hurl.
Eeeew.
Anyone know whether these two were fired?
At least then they would have all the free time needed to fulfil their fantasies.
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wow DUDE that must have been rough atleast when WS chooses better person (looks/jobs wise i mean) than BS then the BS has something high to aim for but what do you do when OW is just all out worse in every sense like in your case?? PARTY LIKE A FRIGGIN ROCKSTAR!!! DUDE Lol DUDE, 
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WS 38
Married: 2000
DD1November 22 2008 - DD2 October 2014
PA Duration September 08 - November 08
Second discovery- 6 online affairs 4 sexual one emotional. October 2014.kids: DS 17, DS 14, DS 12, DS 10 . Baby after divorce DS 18months
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Was misled into thinking we were in recovery for 6 years.
If you were shocked reading any of this, that this is the consequence of not following MB to the LETTER.
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