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SNS note what time it was that she took her purse and check the phone bill! could it be that its time for her period or close to it?

I will definitely check the phone bill, probably tomorrow (online), but don't expect to find anything -- she's never used her personal phone for anything unusual like that.

Her pd? With her pre-meno, she's all over the place. Last cycle was 18 days, this one is 35 days and counting (prob means she skipped on, unless SF (tonite? I hope) triggers it -- usually does, and she was saying she felt PMS emotionally last Tue/Wed).


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If she's irregular than she'll be wanting to take her purse everywhere. Sorry, but there's just no non-embarrassing way to come back to the table from the bathroom to get your purse and then go back in.



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She tried to defend by saying she had "lots of coworker's birthdays in there", but I saw only a few in her work calendar, which were also in her home calendar.

So, it isn't unusual for your W to write her co-worker's BDs in her work calendar? The ONLY thing that is unusual is that she didn't write his BD on your home calendar?

I'm more convinced then ever that your W did not have an A.


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I told her I received a screen capture in an anonymous email. She went WAY overboard trying to uncover how that happened


Let me see if I've got this straight...

You LIE to her about how you found out she recorded office guy's BD in her pocket calendar, and you don't understand why she wanted to know who would do that to her? Who it was that wanted to set her up, make her H wonder if something was up w/ a guy she sometimes works w/?

Are you kidding me?

Who's gaslighting whom here?

Who was it that stole his W's work key and unlocked a building he had no business entering? Who by doing so, threatened her job?

Who made his W unsure of who she could trust at work by making up a BS story about how "someone" emailed him a screen capture of her calendar?

Who says he gave his W PERMISSION to quit her job?

Who wants his W to throw out all her lingerie that she won't wear for him?

Who counts how many flushes his W uses when she BMs and when she doesn't?

Who blames his W when he spends time alone w/ another woman?

Who says after making love to his W that IT, their intimate time together, was a cruel joke b/c she didn't wear a lingerie outfit for him?

I could go on.

Something is VERY wrong here.
















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