hahaha didnt even think of that...

Now she is harrassing me over the phone. I'm gonna have to change my #. This is lower than low. I'm saving her texts for court.
I told her off and it felt so good!

Do you have some way to record her?

Why the sudden change on her part? What happened?

I have no way to record her, but I got a text from his phone saying something rude that doesnt sound like somthing he would say. So I called his phone to say "What the [censored]?" and she answered. She started talking crap about me, but I completely talked over her til she hung up. Then she texted me calling me names and saying she is pregnant. I saved the texts.
I told her she is not the only one he's cheated on me with and that she shouldn't feel special cuz he plays this game everytime he gets mad at me. I told her he's using her to p*ss me off, otherwise he'd try to hide it and that I guarantee he'll come crying back to me in a couple months like he always does. I told her she's just another girl on his list and that she's not even the first "Megan". I told her to have fun with my leftovers and that I feel sorry for any woman he gets with. I asked her why she's even contacting me and getting all mad cuz I dont even want him anymore and she'll find out the hard way what type of man he is. She was mad about his tatoo of my name and called me a money-hungry b*tch. I also told her she just ruined it for HIM and that if he wants to talk to his kids he'll have to call his dad cuz I'm changing my # and informing the judge that I'm being harrassed. She said "Go ahead and see what happens" and I said "We had sex in the passenger seat of his car,so you can think about that everytime you sit in it"

I told his sister what OW said about being pregnant, and she said she heard from her other brother, who heard from his dad, who heard from STBXH that she might be pregnant. I went off on her and I'm gonna cofront his brother and dad too. They should've told me she might be pregnant, knowing he was trying to get back with me. That changes EVERYTHING! My brother called STBXH and he was drunk.

This morning I texted STBXH....

Just want to let u know I'm going 2 court tomorrow morning to show the judge the txts from ur gf and then changing my number

What are u talking about? I dont have a girlfriend and I was drinking last night

Well I have txts from her from u phone talkin sh*t and sayin she's pregnant and I spoke to her. U shouldnt have let her use ur phone

Well if she is pregnant it aint by me unless she's at least 2 months along and I didnt know she had my phone. It was on the charger

From now on if u want to talk 2 the kids it will have to be thru ur dad. I didnt want it to be this way but I will not be harrassed by that ho.

U cant do that.

All I have 2 do i show the judge the txts she sent from ur phone. I saved them. And she called me money hungry, so now I'm gonna have ur wages garnished too

Well then tell the judge u also get tips

Dont worry,I'll take care of it. I thought we could keep things respectful but u let her get involved and I'm done with ur games

Look, I'm not seeing her. I'm not spending time with her.

I'll be sure to let the kids know u dont want to spend xmas with them cuz u'd rather spend it with her instead.

Well I'm not. She's got her family.

Well that's what she told me, and u dont want us to come, so I kind of believe her.

Look, I'm done repeating myself.

AW,

Are you out there? How are things going? We are thinking about you.

Hugs.

AM

Just wanted to give an update since I havn't been on here in a while...
I guess I was just done with everything and so tired of drama and just felt like doing my own thing and not talking about my STBXH or my divorce.
I've been doing good. I still have my days once in a while where I feel sad and miss the old H, but I'm trying real hard to get over it all so that I can move on. I've been focusing a lot more on myself, my kids, and having fun. I've been going to church more, and am thinking about joining an Al-Anon group.
STBXH has not changed one bit. He still goes from normal to psycho. He barely talks to our kids. He tries to manipulate me. Still drinks all the time. Same sh*t different day...
I see so many of my friends and family that just keep going back to their partners no matter how horrible they are treated or how many times they get cheated on, and how miserable they are. I am glad I'm getting out of this and standing up for myself.
My friend in Texas (the one who was married to STBXH's best friend) and I are planning a trip to Cancun this summer.
I dont like this post because of how long and painful it is. I think I might make a new post in the divorce section.

armywifie, thanks for the update!

You sure did everything in your power to make things right. It sounds like he is lost until he wants to get himself under control. Drinking, emotional swings, etc. are demons he has to fight himself.

Al-Anon sounds like a great idea!

Cancun sounds even better