i can't even tell you how much i agree with all of them, i thought i was in the long hall with 8 months, are you kidding me? No, the OWH DOES NOT KNOW, YES HE IS HAVING ACTIVE AFFAIR,
I struggle with my husband just thinking about the other woman, working with her? no one is indespensible, except you as the mother of his children, really? No one can do what you do OR WOULD WANT TO is other woman gonna raise 7 children that are not hers? Spending more time with her than you? really? WAKE UP, GET YUR DUCKS IN A ROW AND QUACK, QUACK, QUACK!

Plan B, dark, dark,dark plan B. You are worth more than his left overs. Good man?, Good provider, Good father? Really?

Good man: leave the tramp behind,
Good provider: meet all the needs of your family, not just the monatary needs.
Good father: shows the kids just how much he loves, cherishes, respects their mother!!!!!!!!!!!

Listen to the vets, it hurts like hell, but if and if you want him back, when and if...you will really have him back.

the only one afraid is you, that is wrong.....make them afraid.

other man ok....no not by a long shot....would your man be ok...no i highly doubt it... the best advise i got here was that they alllllllll lie, good bad or indifferent....he is not the man you know, he is in the "affair zone" common sence does not apply.