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Originally Posted by Gack1
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So the skank said she "didn't know" Tiger was married
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You smell that??

You know what that is??

Tide must be out...

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I think this one takes the cake for rationalizing why she slept with a married guy:

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"If it wasn't me, it was going to be other girls," said Grubbs,

Makes sense to me MrRollieEyes

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Originally Posted by Enlightened_Ex
The more I read and live, the more wisdom I see in God's law.

Even if you don't know the OP is married, you should know if you are married to him/her.

Some say it's old fashioned, yet I still see a certain wisdom in such a moral stand.

If you only have sex with your spouse, you can never have sex with someone else's spouse.


Yup, and that is why there are STDs....stick with your spouse and no worries...but sleep around and Bam! Natures way of saying not to sleep around.


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Originally Posted by MarriedForever
Right now on Yahoo's homepage there is an article about some of Woods's fellow PGA pros speaking out against him and what a fake and a phony he is. I am glad they are taking a stand against his despicable behavior and I hope their words hurt him.

Unfortunately they are idiots and blasting the BS with their comments as well.


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Originally Posted by black_raven
Originally Posted by MarriedForever
Right now on Yahoo's homepage there is an article about some of Woods's fellow PGA pros speaking out against him and what a fake and a phony he is. I am glad they are taking a stand against his despicable behavior and I hope their words hurt him.

Unfortunately they are idiots and blasting the BS with their comments as well.
Apparently the "quotes" were not from the actual golfers, so his fellow golfers HAVE NOT come out to blast him. They really should, though.


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Take some advice from Ron White.

If you only @ $&* your wife...you can't get CAUGHT. No one give's a rat's behind.


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

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I was pretty disappointed in what Jack Nicklaus had to say about it:

�Our public is pretty forgiving at times,� Nicklaus said Thursday. �Time usually heals all wounds. I think the hardest thing is obviously his family. That�s a private matter for him and his family.�

�He�s a great athlete,� Nicklaus said. �He�ll figure it out.�


Uh, yeah. He should've just gone with "no comment." skeptical

The only PGA pro I've actually seen (news clip) come out against Tiger's actions is Jesper Parnevik. He's my new favorite PGA player. wink That's not to say many or even most of the other tour players don't feel the same way...they're just not talking.


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Oh, and about "I didn't know he was married"....faint


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well on TMZ (yes i know not the greatest site) had text messages from his first mistress and one of them from tiger stated that they wished they had met years before they would not be in this poisition now. He told her he was going to leave his wife for her... bla blah.

as for the pro's a few of them knew about his escapades according to the gossips sites that is why none of them are talking.


Truth can stand on it's own two feet....A lie needs support....FRM
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Yes, I was disappointed with Jack's response. The public should only be forgiving if one asks for forgiveness and shows true remorse. Not remorse for getting caught---remorse for destroying your family.


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If that is a true apology, I'm a vermicious k'niid.


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Here at MB, we really ought to use the Tiger scandal as a textbook example of how affairs work. He might be famous, but that's only magnified how very much the same these things are:

1) WS who lie, lie, lie, lie, lie and then lie some more, until virtually their whole life is a lie.

2) BS who still try to believe the WS and hold the family together, even to the point of nervous breakdown.

3) The huge walls of fantasy that the WS builds up around the affair - putting their BS in one box and all their other OP(s) in separate little boxes and honestly believing this is a viable lifestyle that no one else will ever notice.

4) The massive destruction (both emotional and physical) when EXPOSURE brings those fantasy walls crashing down into the dirt.

5) The whining and sniveling of OP (especially OW) who say they really thought they were the only one (the only OTHER one) and now they "feel betrayed". (Yes, one of Tiger's hos actually said this yesterday in an interview.)

6) The refusal of the WS to admit to any wrongdoing, even when blatantly caught, and just running away instead.

7) The post-nuclear wasteland left in the wake of the WS and the OP(s).

They're all following the script. Did I leave anything out?
Mulan

P.S. What's the difference between Santa and Tiger Woods? Santa stopped at three "hos".





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Oh, yeah, thought of another one:

The outrageous bullsh*t that a WS will spew if it means getting more sex, and the complete stupidity of the OP in believing it. (See Tiger's text messages, posted at sites like tmz.com).

Again, right out of the script.
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This little skankarella is trying to give Tiger's W some advice???? How dare she.

I CANNOT believe how in the world an OW could ever think that a MM won't cheat on her. I actually read a post on an OW website (yeah, I know I should stay off of those sites) but 95% of the OW wrote the same thing about meeting their soul mate, the sex is fantastic and they expect the MM to be faithful to them. How does one's senses get so warped?? They also wrote about how they were giving the MM much more than the W in the sack. How is it that they think they are like a porn start in the sack and why do they believe they are so much better at satisfying a MM than his W. If I live to be 100 I will never understand how they convince themself of the lies MM tell and the things they choose to believe.

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Cobol, I totally agree with you. When I'm bored, I troll the TOW site, and it stuns me how stupid these women are. Who raised these girls?


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Seriously. As if a cheater wouldn't lie. Puh-leeeze. MrRollieEyes


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This whole Tiger thing is a riot! I love watching a WS get raked across the coals by the media, and now the OW's too! They are unbelievable!

Honestly, I have always felt that waywardism is a form of mental illness. But these OW's - they take the cake. We don't discuss the psychologies of OP's as much, but if waywards are sick, OP's are terminal. Tiger's OW's are proof of that.

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I don't know. I sort of like the OPs BETTER.

At least they are consistent. My exs OM1, when confronted, dropped her and moved on to the NEXT GF within a week or two. (His poor wife frown.

You may not like the behavior, but at least it's consistent. You know the visit to the dentist is going to suck, but you know EXACTLY why.

A WS is all over the place with behavior. More like going to a barber shop expecting a haircut, then you get jumped and have a tooth pulled instead.

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I've been surprised to learn that many golf pros wh0re it up while on the tour. Demanding prostitutes as part of your appearance package is not unknown, apparently. Neither is partying in public with a woman who is not your wife.

Golfers? Those largely unattractive men in sport's ugliest clothes? Who don't run or show much athleticism or get sweaty and tend towards paunches? These men think they're sexy?

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Originally Posted by TogetherAlone
I've been surprised to learn that many golf pros wh0re it up while on the tour.

That surprises me, since honesty and integrity are an integral part of the game of golf. The players are held to a higher standard of morality in play, as opposed to the more aggressive sports where eye pokes, chop blocks, elbows to the face, etc., are considered part of the game.

Seems hypocritical, huh. You don't dare move your ball an inch, but it's acceptable to troll high priced hookers...? crazy


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