Seriously, it's the coolest.
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You need to work on your individual recovery. Your statements tell me you still have nerdiness tendencies. You need to work on you un-nerding before working on your M. Go back an re-read your posts. The french horn is cool? Do you see this? Do you get the nerdiness that jumps out in all your posts?

DUDE

Apparently you missed this
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seriously, you realize you have a renter's mentality, right?

Thats hillarious?

Probably. Do you realize the french horn is not cool?

Your are trying to help me, I'm trying to help you..DUDE

okay, Dude, I was like 11 years old. My arms weren't long enough for the trombone!!

So now, let's hear it from you.

Nevermind, I just noticed your A didn't even go PA. Did you really even have a EA or is this some way of sounding exciting and cool while playing the french horn? Kinda like smokin. You're on here w/ all the fWW. Do you have a temporary tattoo? BE HONEST..DUDE

I had an EA. No tattos, temporary or otherwise. I am cool just because I am.

Joking aside, you really are flip about what you did. You now have NOTHING on your FWW- you are on even ground. In fact, I think that what you did was worse, as you made a totally conscious decision to get back at her by sleeping with someone else.

howtoheal, your treading into dangerous territory with this comment. I cannot agree that what Dude did was worse or equal to what his wife did.

What Dude did was in reaction to what his wife did!
Doesn't excuse it , Dude owns it, He knows it is wayward mentality,,,,,,
but equal or worse...... NO!

Don't get me wrong, what he did IS Adultery! Even Dude knows this and agrees.

Do I care at all for Dudes flippant attitude..... No,,,,,,, but it doesn't change how horrid his wifes A was to start with, Or the pain Dude felt as a result......

Somebody smack me....... I'm defending Dude!

I'm thinkin' the smackin' should be left to SMB!

"I got that BOOM BOOM POW!!"

What is Un-Cool about the french horn?

Also..

What makes you Cooler than anyone else?

I always thought the french horn was more cute-looking than cool.

Dude,

The hottest chicks in the band played french horn / mellophone!

Yeah Dude!

What is wrong with brass players????

I love my trumpet. LOUD. There is so much fantastic music you can do with a trumpet - very versatile.

I have never watched a whole SW film or more than 5 mins of ST. What is the appeal?

Anyway Dude - I like your posts and flippancy (most of the time). Not so good for newbies but very very entertaining.

I was watching iCarly with my kids last night and Tuvok is the principal of the school. Freaked my monkey out a bit when I realized he was emoting.

TST, I really like you. I was rooting for you to pull your head out the whole time SMB was going through your A. I still like you, even though you're defending Dude

HOWEVER- so what if his wife was horrid? She could have been sleeping with a whole football team in front of him and it still does not justify what he did. A REACTION to what she did? So now we can't choose how we react? So that makes it okay for my BH to go out and have a RA because of my EA almost 4 years ago? Do I always need to watch my back because he'd now be justified in doing it? This is how I justified my EA- well, my husband is doing this and that, this other person makes me feel good and BH doesn't, so it's okay......It's NOT OKAY EVER.

I think Dude gives lip service to saying it was wayward mentality- it's always like, "Yah, what I did was wrong, I know, I agree, I've apologized...(whatever, it was justified anyways)." It's the whole "If his wife jumped off a bridge does that make it right for him to do too?"

So I disagree with you. Perhaps not worse, but at least equal.
So we can agree to disagree. And I still like you.