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Re: Urgent help needed
Neak #2290412 12/17/09 05:52 AM
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Glove oils comments are sound. Neak is quite on the button recognizing a serial cheater.

Give me some background. Why should we help you- (refer to my previous post).

But I, being poor, have only my dreams; I have spread my dreams under your feet; Tread softly because you tread on my dreams -Yeats
Re: Urgent help needed
urgenthelpneeded #2290474 12/17/09 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted by urgenthelpneeded
I appreciate any constructive advice, whether it be advising me to leave which is what I do not want to do
It's not about you, or what you want Jr!

It's about your wife and what she wants.

You don't have a snowballs chance in heck unless you realize this.


Originally Posted by urgenthelpneeded
I am actively maintaining no contact and will do this by leaving my job if required.
If required, IF REQUIRED....

Are you kidding?

100% no contact with any of these women FOR LIFE is a non negotiable requirement.

Look, lets be honest.
You don't feel bad about any of this, you just feel bad becouse you got cought. I doubt you can change, so this will happen again.

The Kindest thing you can do for you wife, that might actually show her you do care for her a small amount, Is to grant her a divorce. Give her the house, give her child support and allomony, and anything else she wants.

Do that and you can keep your job and keep fooling around with these bimbos all you want. But do them a favor and never get married again.

Me 34
WW 30
Abandoned Feb 17th 08, D-Day Aprl 27th 08.
Returned home Jul 7th, OC born 12/30/08
The FOG is clear, and we are in recovery.
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