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How did your BH react to the knowledge the OM got more?
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Thanks for pulling that up.
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The same could be said for WH's. Hmm... I'm suddenly reminded of a scene from The Sopranos where Tony Soprano was asked why he would allow his OW, but not his W, to perform a BJ on him, and his response was along the lines of "Are you crazy? Those are the same lips that kiss my kids." TS said that, too? That was Paul Viti (De Niro) in Analyze This.
I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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Why is it WW's do SF things with OM that they won't do with BH? I think thats what you are trying to ask. The answer is simple psychology, doing something that is "Wrong/Dangerous" can be very, very appealing/stimulating/arousing under certain circumstances. If you have ever experienced this, you will understand what I mean. If not you may find it hard to fathom.
Last edited by Gack1; 01/20/10 11:21 AM.
Me 34
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Abandoned Feb 17th 08, D-Day Aprl 27th 08.
Returned home Jul 7th, OC born 12/30/08
The FOG is clear, and we are in recovery.
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From what the Wookie said, it was something to do with chucking all the rest of his morality so why not these too.
Kinda like, "I'm already goin' ta hayell, what's one more sin," kind of thinking.
I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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The same could be said for WH's. Hmm... I'm suddenly reminded of a scene from The Sopranos where Tony Soprano was asked why he would allow his OW, but not his W, to perform a BJ on him, and his response was along the lines of "Are you crazy? Those are the same lips that kiss my kids." TS said that, too? That was Paul Viti (De Niro) in Analyze This. LOL - you may be right! Perhaps I got my "wise-guys" mixed up...
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