Originally Posted by newjersey
Manswers,

Before I read MB and understood emotional needs I had no idea that anything COULD have been going on.

So don't beat yourself up too much for not seeing what was happening, criminals are still responsible for their crimes not the victims.

NJ

Yes, definitely dont beat yourself up...My WH was having an affair for two years before I found out, I was just a very trusting person...and most of the betrayed spouses (BS') on here did not have a clue....I mean you were working hard for your family. I was home taking care of my four year old, WH was concentrating on finding someone else to meet his "needs". Poor baby...NOT!


BW me-41
WH -39
DS - 9
married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered
DDay aug 2007
found MB dec 2007
Moved out april 2008
still seeing OW
Plan B

Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. smile