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Barbie, I wondered about using the 'BH' right off the bat as newbys don't usually do so. Sigh. What is with trolls? No real life to speak of? No one meeting their emotional needs? 
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I used DH dear husband, i used it in other forums, and my english sucks because its my second langauge I speak spanish.
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Oops, I meant DH I think.
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Read. Sounds like the "dropped my baby" guy.
that would be manofth3year4567.
Compare.
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Me; W 46
Him; H 46
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Dated/Married total 28 years.
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sigh we are Tryng to concieve and I participate in a forum for womenn trying to get pregnant thats where i got the DH.
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I used DH dear husband, i used it in other forums, and my english sucks because its my second langauge I speak spanish. :::head scratch::: then why are you on an English-speaking forum?
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Snif, Snif....
Ya'll smell that?
Thats a TROLL!
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because, i didn`t find a forum about infidelity in spanish.
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Read. Sounds like the "dropped my baby" guy. 
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Preach the Gospel every day. When necessary, use words.
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Read. Sounds like the "dropped my baby" guy. You mean manoftheyear...I was wondering why you said Laur, I checked into that one and did not see one similarity, LOL!
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sigh...
thanks for your help...
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I think she sounds slightly more intelligent and educated than our uber-rich surgeon.
Lokil: If you want people to take you seriously, how about providing a little more background. How long have you been married? How old are you? Any children?
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we have been married for 14 months Im 29 dh is 37 no children yet we are trying.
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sigh...
thanks for your help... Yeah, right. Tell you what, lokil: You asked for advice and you got it. This isn't the "hide the affair from spouse" forum. This is Marriage Builders. If you truly want to build a marriage after doing the worst possible thing one can do to it, you've got a lot of reading and a lot of 'splaining to do.
Preach the Gospel every day. When necessary, use words.
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how the hell I`m supossed to build my marriage if my husband divorces me and he will if he finds out infidelity is a deal breaker for him.
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Infidelity is a deal breaker? He must be a jerk.
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Lokil: I certainly hope you used protection last night. Probably not, since drunken one-night stands rarely involve the use of protection. If you get really lucky, you won't end up pregnant with the OM's baby.
14 months and you're already cheating? This doesn't bode well for your chances of recovery, I'm afraid.
So, are you listening to any of this? Are you going to tell your H the truth? Are you going to write a NC letter and stay away from the OM and your friend? Because, if not, I've got work to do and I'd like to get back to it.
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He will find out. Hard to get your wife pregnant when you are out of the country.
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well if you must know the details we did not used protection we are both married and monogamus so it didnt seem necesary but there wasn`t any time to become pregnant anyways my friend came home before that.
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