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Re: Overwhelmed and all alone
_Larry_ #2322947 02/12/10 03:42 PM
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It is difficult to find meaningful information on the subject of British Military attitudes on adultery. It is also difficult to find information on British divorce law.

That said:

The Discipline and Standards Paper 1993, a British Military code, does prohibit adultery.

Now what happens in reality is something else. Your Chaplain can tell you. He will know.

The more you know, the better able you will be to protect yourself and our child.

The last thing you want to do is trust your husband. He is not in his right mind. He will lie at the drop of a hat. He will make promises he has no intention of honoring. It is the way of a wayward.

Larry
Re: Overwhelmed and all alone
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Originally Posted by sez
I realised that I hadn't been meeting his emotional needs in two areas: recreational companionship and domestic duties. I am sort of prevented from being able to do either easily, as I have a very hectic life (completing my PhD, looking after our child, and working).
Good on you for recognizing that. There is a website you might find helpful... go to flylady.net and see if there is anything there that can get you on track in the domestic arena.

Could you hire a maid once a week if you had to? Find a babysitter and have a date night once a week doing fun stuff.

Your schedule sounds extremely full. I, too, worked full time, had babies/toddlers, and was working on a degree at night. It's hell on a marriage. Can you take a semester or quarter off? Or two? Or switch to a 4 day work week and use the fifth for studying and cleaning house?

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