Repo men can do private party stuff like this?

I know some hesitate to, but...huh. You learn something new every day.

Yes, I do.

Try watching Operation Repo. There are few things that men do that women should not.

Repoing is one of them. I know it's overblown, but heck. It can be scary.

Car will only be a few miles from me tuesday all day.

Car is in my name only-loan paid up to date=only in my name-I have keys and a private place to park it.

I offered when we bought the car in July to put it in both our names. She stalled coming to the dealership to the point where she said just put it in your name.

She did this with DD's car a year ago last august even though she was there through all the paperwork.. Also a boat in 2007. Is there something I am missing here?. All the vehicles and toys are in my name even though I offered to put them joint or some in hers.

I can easily repo the car tuesday. In front of a judge the 4X's through detox since May 2009 He may Say THANK YOU TO ME.

Just need a little reassurance with what I am doing.

Nesre

This one won't make it to the TV screen. Just a rather handsome 50 something man getting into a sharp red Elantra and driving off.

Way toooo boring for TV
Nesre

If it is registered in your name, and insured in your name-it's your car. You can legally take your own car and drive it anywhere you want.

No one can stop you.

Just make sure you have your registration and current insurance card with you when you take it, just in case she tries to report it stolen.

Nesre,

You absolutely MUST get this car back!! WW is a drunk and will endager her life as well as the lives of other innocent people. Do you realize that if she crashes into somebody they can sue you because the car is registered in your name? They can come after you!! You have some major exposure to some serious liability if she hurts or god forbid kills somebody.

Get that car ASAP!!

Mindshare

Thanks JT and MS

The co-dependant side of me always is way too trusting and willing to give more chances even when it is not in the best intrest of the family or myself.

Gotta quit that.

Best intrest of DD and myself now.

Car will be parked tuesday afternoon-just after lunch time-safely in a locked fenced in area.

Thanks

Nesre

nerse,


You need to be ready for the fall out from taking the car.....

She will react..... If she doesn't know you took the car she will call the cops to report it stolen......(If she isn't to drunk to figure it out)

I would expect it will force her to get a lawyer to force you to provide support .....

It will put her into the attack mode ......

I don't have a good answer for this ....I just want you to be aware that you'll have a whole new set of issues to deal with ....

Just be prepared to go to a war footing.......

Johnswin

Do you have a post or can you tell aout this?




Just curious.

Nesre

SC



WW binges for a couple of days to a couple of weeks. When DD and I left she was 3-4 days into it. Sometimes she can stop for 2-3 weeks. The cycle just goes over and over.

She will figure it out cause she is taking a 3 week course and this is the last week of it. During the day she does not drink that I know of but lately I think Vodka was invented for people like her.

WW sent a whole packet of bills with DD tonite and a short letter. She would like to talk and it would only be about DD and finances.

The line that really got me was "I need to talk to you about something medical and would prefer or wont do it through IM"

YIKES

I think I am going to have to talk to her.

What would you do???? That line makes me very nervous.........


Nesre

insist on 3rd party

Have to agree.... If you've had a std test then there's nothing she needs to tell you.....

so get tested if you haven't It's easy ....never thought I'd need to get one but I did.......(clean by the way)

And I'm sure your taking care of the DD so it's her finances so what's there to discuss ..... That would be something the WW wants from you!!!!

Stick to the Plan-B

If it's important enough she'll use the IM

Your right SC. WW did finally use IM tonight for sevferal questions.

What an entitlement attitude.

Wants keys back to "HER house"
Wants key back for "HER car"
Wants to know when I plan to pay "HER bills"

Is she for real?

Didn't have a chance to nab the car today as I was out of town all day

Tommorow is another day though......

Sucks and is embarrassing to go to the DOC for STD checkup. Just like she will have to take care of her medical I'll have to do the same.

I really want to stay totally dark. as long as possible.

I am tempted to listen to her VM;s but havent. I just keep deleting them.

Ive read on a lot of other posts here about sleep being off and now its happening to me. Was up from 130 am to 5 am during the nite. Not like me at all. Usually sleep llike a rock...

Got DD16 enrolled in school here today so she strats wed.


gotta run 4 now

Nesre

My WW stepped up the the edge of the cliff and looked over....

That's when I gave her the Plan-B letter....

She stood there for 3 days looking over then backed off...

I had left on a trip and had given her the letter right before I left and expected her to move out while I was gone....

So.....I haven't walked in your shoes...yet....

My best bud said he had a lot of tuff days after he split from his WW......

I know the days will get better for you.....

Keep talking to the DD it will be good for both of you....

And I know your so much better off not being exposed to the WW dragging you thru her crap........

I think Your doing great......

SC



That must of been a loooong three days. How long ago was that and where are you two today?

N

Presented the Plan-B early in June 09......I was working with Steve H at the time and I think he helped me stay in plan-A longer than I would have otherwise .....

The trip I had put me in the same town that the OM was in at a trade show (snooping at it's best).... I had the opportunity to have a face-to-face with him and explain my intentions if he ever messed with my DD's.....

It was short but effective.....Should have seen his face!!!!


The next day my WW texted me that she would comply with the Plan-B demands ....I still don't know what they said to each other....

Any how.... They were Soul Mates ....she had it bad.....

It's been just over 6 months now and her attitude is better ...

She is doing a Iron Man on the 6th of March and I plan to have a Come-to-Jesus meeting with her after the event.....

It's time for us to start moving forward or we'll be in another mess worse than this one....

I won't survive another slip on her part would be straight to the lawyer for me.....

I am hopeful that we can recover she is showing hints of the fog clearing..... just don't trust her at all yet....

You Ask.......

Did you get that car yet Nesre? I cringe to think of what could happen to you if she crashes it and hurts or kills somebody.

Yah, we need a car story !!!!!

Hi nesre! Sorry it took me a while to get back to you on this:


I think my post about this got lost during the great MB crash in the summer of '09.

I may still have it somewhere...don't hold your breath though. My computer files aren't very organized and I'm totally distracted by the Olympics.