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I thought divorce records were public information. Am I mistaken? How can they not be?
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They are. It's just that I haven't found what I want online. I can go the courthouse, but don't know for sure where they would've filed (if they even did). I will don't want to walk up and say, "I would like to search your D records for OW or OWH." I have paid a total of about $100 for searches online and turned up nothing. They "supposedly" where divorced around this time last year or before. I just want to know for sure for my own personal knowledge. I am betting that OC was conceived before D was final. Note OC was conceived end of Jan. 2009 and was born a preemie at 28 weeks.
Me: BS age 35 POS-eX-the SORRIEST, CRUELEST, LOWLY WAYWARD SCUMBAG out there Married 14.5 years, together almost 16 DDay: 7-5-09 OC born: 7-23-09 no COM: tried 6 years  D filed 5/05/2011 D final 11/10/11 I was gaslighted for 2 years. "You were not built for a safe story. Take risks and feel what it is like to actually be brave. It's worth it." Carlos Whittaker
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I found OWs divorce information by looking up my county's Superior Court. From there, I entered her name and BINGO the information popped up. Some cases show more information than others, but with her's I found dates, CS amount, SS amount, date SS ended (the month before my WH moved in), who got what, etc.
I also found that she had filed a restraining order against a BF -- before she was divorced from H#2.
The mother lode I found just last weekend -- her credit report. With SS#, birthdate, and basic information on her mortgage I got what I wanted. And, it was as I expected -- late payments, collections, unpaid balances, etc. AND -- several accounts in good standings -- WH's credit cards with OW as an "authorized user."
I know all the pertinents about her -- employer, numbers, kids' info., photos, etc.
And I have two photos of her topless and a close up of her va-jay-jay.
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Full name, birth date, SSN, driver's license #, full employment history, family names and contact info including mother's maiden name, criminal background check, property owned, mortgage company, bank account #'s for 2+ accounts, and so much more.
So there was at least one advantage to having her hired on to the company, though not everything on that list was due to that. Some things I dug up for myself.
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And I have two photos of her topless and a close up of her va-jay-jay. Holyheart, I don't know whether to laugh or  Can't you do something with those? Put them on a billboard, perhaps?
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His PA 2003-2006
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And I have two photos of her topless and a close up of her va-jay-jay. eeeeewwwwwwwwwww.........  I have pics too, but they are a bit less risqu�. I've never done anything with them but they are my ace in the hole if NC is ever broken!!! She KNOWS I have them......  not2fun
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I found alot on www.ussearch.comThe one thing that I cannot find out for sure is OW's divorce date. Then they probably aren't divorced. I can also only find OW's address listed as a PO Box. Any ideas on how to find the actual physical address? She supposedly lives with 'rents. But even when I try to find their physical address (I know their names), I come up with the PO Box. My counties website has a feature where you can search the property taxmaps by name. If the county the PO box is in has a similar feature, and they actually own any property, you got them.
Me 34
WW 30
Abandoned Feb 17th 08, D-Day Aprl 27th 08.
Returned home Jul 7th, OC born 12/30/08
The FOG is clear, and we are in recovery.
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Who in the world takes shots of their vajayjay anyway? Unless you're a porn star, WHY, I ask you, WHY!?
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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I have pics too, but they are a bit less risqu�. I've never done anything with them but they are my ace in the hole if NC is ever broken!!! She KNOWS I have them...... WH and OW don't know I have the pictures, and they, too, are my ace in the hole...so to speak. I have the va-jay-jay shot saved in a special email account and look forward to the day it will be sent to people she knows and -- ha, ha -- I'll make it look like SHE sent it of herself. That's my fantasy -- whether I do it or not is another thing. And why would she do it? Sexting -- like she's a teenager!
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and a close up of her va-jay-jay. How do you know it's her? Don't they all look alike? 
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
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Depending on care, and...um, frequency of--you know what, I really don't want to be banned, so let's leave it there. 
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
I will not spend my life this way.
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