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Really, I do. It's been an emotional day. We lost a young (41) friend to cancer. She has 6 kids.
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{{{{{{Pep}}}}}}}
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Sorry to hear it Pep.  It's hard. I've been there. I'll send up some prayers for the family. Love in Christ, Miss M
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I'm so sorry to hear this, Pep. What a sad loss she is. I'm sending a big hug to you. I know you'll get many more. 
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((((((((((Pep))))))))))  Praying for you and her family.
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Thanks guys. We're OK. H and I went to the zoo this afternoon, as a distraction. Now that we're home, sadness is back.  She suffered for 3 years. That's enough. She had thyroid CA. The surgery included vocal cord removal ... 3 years without her voice. Hard to fathom ...
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Oh my! So sorry for your loss. Will keep you and the family in my prayers!
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Thoughts and prayers go out to you Pep. 
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We're OK. H and I went to the zoo this afternoon, as a distraction. Hey Pep, Very sorry to hear about your loss. Next time you walk past my cage, though, please stop and say hello. After all, how many monkeys do you see tapping away on a laptop?? Maybe that made you smile. If not, I hope my condolences resonate a little better. TB
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{{{{{HUGS & Prayers for Peace and Comfort for a family experiencing loss today}}}}}}}
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Pep,
I am sorry to hear this story. It sort of strikes close to home. My daughter had thyroid cancer. Fortunately, it appears that they caught it early enough.
6 children and three years of suffering. It just doesn't seem right, it never does.
Take care Pep.
JL
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She's going to have so much to say in heaven, and will get to sing besides. You can introduce us.
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 pep, and the friends children 41 is scary young
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Pep, I'm very sorry for your loss.
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Pep:
There's nothing to say when a loss like this takes place. After losing the woman who raised me like her daughter to kidney cancer, she too suffered for 3 years; and losing my father after brain cancer, he fought his battle for 7 months, i still have no words to even begin to touch the loss and sorrow those that loved this young mother have.
So sorry for your loss. only God can touch the places that are hurting due to her loss, the loved ones, precious children left here, to live their lives in a much different way now.
there is a song that has the phrase....and God cried.....and yes i do believe he does, sometimes, on days like these.
hugs to you.
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I'm so very sorry Pep. I will keep you and your friend's family in my thoughts and prayers.
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