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You choose:
As he is
Living without him
Dithering in one spot
Men marry women expecting them not to change and women marry men expected they will change. Both are wrong.
You don't fear the truth, you know the truth.
You need a plan based on some goal.
As yet, you don't have enough option information to formulate a reasonable plan.
I can't think of anything else to add.
Larry
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Oh yea, I do.
Some women live all their life with a philandering, gas lighting, serial adulterer. Bob Hope's wife is a prime example.
I don't know why, they just do.
Larry
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Yes, they do. Many of them do.
if this is your choice you do not even have to snoop. Why? If you are going to stay married to him anyway why torture yourself. Better not to know, right?
Quite frankly I think you H has done a lot of damage on the M and on your emotional well being. But it is your choice.
He is a serial cheater and you have all the rights to live a life of h7ll or to give yourself a life without him.
What a relief would be not to have to snoop, not trust, live in fear of him cheating again....
You might have the right to many of his assets and good alimony. Find out, but decide what you want to do.
blessing
atena
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