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Re: I had affairs - Should I let go?
Just Learning #2341321 03/23/10 11:43 AM
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Sad- another marriage broken.

And your son get to pay the price. He will, at best, get to see the man who he sees as his dad, every other week or less.

Hamster, you said your son will get through your divorce, because you got through your parents divorce. Did you?

Is what is happening today, fallout that started back then?

Your son's future will be guided by your decisions and actions today. You are not divorced yet- your future is not set in stone.

Last edited by 1stepforward; 03/23/10 01:01 PM.
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Married 15years, together for 20
served D papers on 6/2/09
Divorce final 12/19/2010

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Re: I had affairs - Should I let go?
hamster #2341437 03/23/10 01:39 PM
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Originally Posted by hamster
I wish someone could just give me all the answers!

AKA:

I want someone else to do the hard work, read/study/learn ... and then provide me the easy answers.

LINK ~~> Carrot/Stick of Plan A

LINK ~~> Buyers/Renters/Freeloaders
Re: I had affairs - Should I let go?
Pepperband #2348704 04/05/10 04:42 PM
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What Pep said.

Golden opportunity to learn hamster. Even if it doesn't solve your problem this time, what you can learn here is invaluable for the future.

. . .

Larry
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