I have days where I just want to say screw it, where's the lawyer. Today is one of those days.

Of course I don't let her see that side, at least not right now.

Bob:

If you want to get the guy, it is possible. But it will take me a ton of effort, which I don't mind, to gather up all the stuff again and get it here to post. If you don't want to take that route, save me the effort, please. If you will follow through, let me know and I will do the job.

Thanks.

I do find it very interesting that he is a serial adulterer.

Larry

Bob.....

I always found I felt better when I was actively working on a plan....

As your doing your best job to Plan-A her you need to be planing your exposure...... Making a FB list ..... getting phone numbers together of the other people your going to call...... planing what your going to say.......

That will help a little ...... I hope......

There are more dark days ahead...... you are in the fight of your life.......

The one thing I think you can hold to is that you know in your heart that you would be happiest married to the mother of your children....... That's worth fighting for......

Dr. H talks about as you plan-A that over time if the WW never comes around and it doesn't work out that you will have less regrets

I wanted to be sure I made every effort to save my marriage...... that my children would know their father did everything humanly possible to honor his vows to their mother

Sorry have not gotn back to you Larry. the nite of my last post I had a minor stroke. I do want to take the guy down, but have another fight going on right now.

I do have a little resevation about doin it since he is trying to cut contact, but only because his wife found out.

Up to you Bob. All of us are here to help.

Sorry to hear about your stroke. Stress will do that to you.

Larry

I want to take him down but I tink for now I am going to concetrate on getting the exposure and no contact going, as well as my rehab.

I would like to reserve the asistnce for nailing him for latr if needed. Thik I need to put ennrgy intto abve rite now.

Sory about spelling, not used to typping with 1 hand

thx for the support.

You are doing very very well for someone who just had a stroke, however minor it was.

Bob ,

Sorry to here of your stroke....and I hope your improving everyday.....

Such a lousy time to have to deal with a WW on top of everything else......

I hope you can remember to stay focused on all you need to do to recover your M........


I'll try to watch for your updates..... Keep sending them!!!