These two things are mutually exclusive.

It sounded like she was saying goodbye to us in her last post. Typically we all come down hard on someone when they first get here and they have made such grave mistakes like this poor girl did. The thing is.. she is one of the willing victims who is believing she needs some guy and doesn't know she needs a source that loves her without needing her. What kind of Father did she have for this to go on in her head.

I really don't care how right I was in my assesment or how smart I might seem or even how MB I am.

All I care about really is that she gets help somewhere. I don't really believe we are so gifted that we didn't need help one time ourselves nor do I doubt that "There but for the grace of God go I"

I guess its one way to see if they are seriuos, to hammer them. But if she doesn't get help our words were wasted and its a shame. Or maybe shes a troll and Im a sucker? Then the help she needs is beyond this forum anyways.

I truly hope she takes heed and reads here to expand her mind and options but we may never know now.

Well young lady, if you read here and it all seems like greek and you don't understand why we all came down on you. Open your ears and mind and develop the disipline that everyone needs to have a healthy relationship, first with yourself, then maybe with others when your ready. If you apply yourself here you will not regret it. Welcome to the real world of adult relationships and here is the witty one liner I will leave you with. Please forgive me for being such a smarta$$

"If you want to pee with the Big Dogs ya gotta lift yer leg high"

Many ppl here can help you if you will let them