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I am glad that your M is showing improvement, TandC but did he unfriend OW on FB? Has he given you full access to his cell phone and computer activity? Do the cell phone records show that there is no further contact between him and OW or has his improved behavior lulled you into believing that they were "just friends?"
What he did was an A and what you did was not exposure.
God's Blessings,
Say
Me, BW-57
FWH 54
4 kids and 4 grandbabies between us
In recovery since D-day, May 28,2007
FWH never onboard the MB boat but still clinging to the side.
One day at a time by God's grace.
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Your H had (and is probably still having) an emotional affair. You need to read up on these. They are just as damaging as a PA.
You have not exposed nothing, you made more "he said..she said" statements and allowed your H to go completly underground.
THERE is no such thing as 100% turn around right away.
Not when he is texting "I love you" to another woman. He is a compulsive liar (via your own telling, and is apparently a great actor.) You are being played.
Recovery is very, very hard (I should know, I am very very weak- and have made all the wrong choices)
What you are feeling is called the rollarcoaster, you are on a "high". Problem is, there are no tracks under you.
I am worried about you, take care.
Me; W 46
Him; H 46
2 girls
DD19
DD16
Dated/Married total 28 years.
..I am learning and working on myself.
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