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DH = Darling (or Dear) Husband.
If the couple reconciles uses the MB principles, this is often the net result.
Preach the Gospel every day. When necessary, use words.
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"Dear Husband" indicates that she no longer thinks of him as a "WH" or even "FWH." I've been known to use that nomenclature myself. My H is just my DH now.
That's what a good dose of recovery will do...
Me BS 61
Him FWS 63
Married 40 years
D-Day 6/30/06
Still can't believe it.
6/08 Recovering nicely. Anything is possible!
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I've been able to figure out most of them, but this one has me stumped...
ILYBNILWY
Me- BW (26)
H- WS (29)- ongoing EA
M- 8 years
Kids: DS7 & DD5
Most recent attempt to get NC: 9/8/10
Currently: one sided Plan A
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I love you but not in love with you
Recovered marriage, recovering self, life gets better everyday 
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I didn't see TOS.
A post was deleted due to TOS (not mine, lol). I was just curious about it, but NBD.
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I didn't see TOS.
A post was deleted due to TOS (not mine, lol). I was just curious about it, but NBD. TOS = Terms of Service It's standard online forumspeak.
Preach the Gospel every day. When necessary, use words.
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Me: 43 y.o. BFWH, D-day 11/11/09 (NC since 9/01) Divorce from WW final 9/16/10. Current Status: MB-based Marriage to Nature Girl 12/8/12 (first date on 12/11/10) Mine: S(16), D(11) NatureGirls: S(23), D(21) Another EA Story
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How 'bout CWH and PC?
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Me: BH, 39 (and no longer jobless; just broke)
Her: WW, 33
Never lived together
Married 6 years; together 10 years
2 young kids (DD3 and DD1.5)
Her EA: Fall '08
She moves out of our home: 10/16/09
Informally separated
D-day: 01/22/10
D-day #2: 06/28/10
Exposed to 12 of my WW's and the OM's friends and family members plus all of my immediate family members and some extended family
In plan A at Dr. Bill Harley's advice since May '10
Have talked with lawyer twice; hate it
Her region is a 50/50 custody area
OM stopped working with her 08/10
Wife has NOT filed
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CWH & PC...
Where & how were these used?
Not common abbreviations...
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Currently Wayward Husband?
Personal Computer? Politically Correct?
If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app! Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8. Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010 If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
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What is a DS or DD?
Such as:
DS-5 DD-Born Feb 2010
Me: 24 WW: 25 Married: April 13th 2007 Kids: None OM1: Discovered 7 Jan 2011 / OM2: Discovered Aug 2010 Wife is currently deployed to Afghanistan.
Summary of my story
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Darling son.
Darling daughter.
BW
Married 1989
His PA 2003-2006
2 kids.
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Sorry folks, I thought I was savvy... but what is t/j?
Often seems to be used when someone is making a personal reference or telling a story.
BS: Me, 27
WS: Her, 24
EA: October
PA: 11/22/10
Moved out 12/3/10
Moved back in mid-January.
In tentative recovery. Is that the sun I see, breaking through the fog?
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Sorry folks, I thought I was savvy... but what is t/j?
Often seems to be used when someone is making a personal reference or telling a story. Thread Jacking. A distraction from the original post.
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BS: Me, 27
WS: Her, 24
EA: October
PA: 11/22/10
Moved out 12/3/10
Moved back in mid-January.
In tentative recovery. Is that the sun I see, breaking through the fog?
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Last edited by stretch123; 03/22/11 12:12 PM. Reason: moved to personal thread
Me: 43
ExWW: 44
Married 16yrs. 4 children
EA (ExWW): May-Nov 2009 + Aug-Dec 2010
D-DAY JAN 30, 2011
Exposure: FEB 7, 2011
Contact Again: Apr 25, 2011
Divorce Final Sept 2012
"I want to be married and stay married. Now I uunderstand the kind of marriage I want and we all deserve. But I also know it takes two to want to Build that Marriage."
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That post really belongs on your own thread. This thread is for spelling out acronyms, not really for discussing personal cases.
BW
Married 1989
His PA 2003-2006
2 kids.
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What is R ?
As in, "You and WW should stop talking about R."
Me: 43
ExWW: 44
Married 16yrs. 4 children
EA (ExWW): May-Nov 2009 + Aug-Dec 2010
D-DAY JAN 30, 2011
Exposure: FEB 7, 2011
Contact Again: Apr 25, 2011
Divorce Final Sept 2012
"I want to be married and stay married. Now I uunderstand the kind of marriage I want and we all deserve. But I also know it takes two to want to Build that Marriage."
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Depends on the context. Used the way you've given it, "R" refers to "Relationship."
It can also refer to "Recovery," as in "my spouse and I want to R the M."
Preach the Gospel every day. When necessary, use words.
St. Francis of Assissi
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not directly related to acronyms, but where do ya'll get all the "smileys" and little character hitting each other over the head with a 2x4??
I'm new at this..
BS(me)
FWH
M '91
DS x 3
Don’t let anyone capture you with empty philosophies and high-sounding nonsense that come from human thinking and from the spiritual powers of this world, rather than from Christ.
Col. 2:8 (NLT)
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