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Tom2010,
No worries!
But might I suggest you sit back a bit and avoid waywards threads. Giving a wayward permission to do anything besides focusing on helping their victim is dangerous at best!
Butterfly is not broken and needing fixed..... She took her moral compass out of her purse, threw it on the ground and stompped on it!
It's the compass that's broken!
She will need a new one!
When she focuses on cleaning out all her H's wounds and treating him with protection and care, a new compass will be available to her again.
When she has worked the MB Program, as designed, this new compass will be better than any she has used to guide her in the past.
Last edited by tst; 04/28/10 07:35 AM.
Recovery began 10/07;
Meeting my wife's EN's is my "thank you" that refuses to be silenced.
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First of all, thank you all for your opinions and comments.
My husband and I will be continuing counseling and reviewing the information on this site.
However, I won't be posting on the forums in the future. I believe that we need to focus on each other and not me focusing on these forums.
So I bid you adieu but not because anyone has said anything wrong, but I just won't have the time to be on online forums right now.
Best of luck to all of you who are still in the recovery process and congratulations to those who are recovered with happy, healthy marriages. Someday we will be in that group too.
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Butterfly, please come back occasionally for support. There is no where IRL that people understand what you are going through more than here. There is nowhere IRL that you can talk openly and honestly with FWWs and FWHs. The plan and the material are wonderful and will be incredibly helpful but the support and advice you get here is invaluable.
It does not have to be all consuming. Set aside a little time every couple of days and check in. You will not be sorry.
God's Blessings,
Say
Me, BW-57
FWH 54
4 kids and 4 grandbabies between us
In recovery since D-day, May 28,2007
FWH never onboard the MB boat but still clinging to the side.
One day at a time by God's grace.
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After reading the whole of this thread, Butterfly, I understand why you came to this decision but I still think that if you can ignore the differing opinions that sometimes cause little spats you will find the forums to be very beneficial to the successful R of your M. If you are still reading, read TST's story. He came here as a foggy wayward desperate to save his M, fully recovered his M as well as himself and as stuck around to help others to navigate what he has already come through so successfully.
If you come back, stick to your other thread so that there will be some continuity for those trying to keep track. You will be in my MB prayers. You have learned much already in the short time that you have been here.
God's Blessings,
Say
Me, BW-57
FWH 54
4 kids and 4 grandbabies between us
In recovery since D-day, May 28,2007
FWH never onboard the MB boat but still clinging to the side.
One day at a time by God's grace.
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