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......how are you? And how is that beautiful baby?????......

Oh, and you did good, my friend.....

Not2fun

you are all exactly correct and that is why i don't hardly talk to her. She has no moral compass and doesn't get it and i can't deal with stress like that. The reason i even talked to her about this is the fact of the STD and that she was doing what someone else had done to me. Yes it takes to two tango but you don't need to be the one helping out. so to speak.

This new sex affair just started two or three weeks ago.

My "friend" and I have drifted apart because of her behavior. She knows where i am when she decides to remove her head from her [censored]. Otherwise i pretty much have nothing to do with her.

So Schoolbus and Neak you are correct in that opinion she really isn't in any condition to be a true friend to anyone right now.

Tabby you are correct and i have told her about she gets what she deserves... on more than one occassion in the past.

Sorry but i have to vent about it.... i feel like i look around and so many people who i thought had similar morals as i did... well they don't. I feel like i am this crazy loon because i feel that people that are in a relationship should be the ONLY ones in said relationship. It's like they all have these grey areas. I don't get it. I was raised with my siblings to believe in the institute of marriage... i thought people like my friend and her now XH and my XH where of the same through process. Boy was i wrong. I always wonder how the heck did i end up here. In my job i deal with it all day long too and i am not allowed to "preach" my moral views so to speak.... but i do try to put those reminders in every so often. Just frustrates me

Like i said thank you everyone for you advice i truely appreciate it.

{{{{{{NOT}}}}}

Omgoodness she is awesome she is little miss chatter box. I am so proud of her she is in swimming lessons and she is going underwater by herself. It amazes me that even at 2 1/2 y/o she knows right from wrong. For example the days she goes to her fathers house i let her know where she is going. Well that smart little girl doesn't want to go. Unfortunately at this age i have no choice but the next day she will wake up and tell me she is NOT going today she will be going to Mimi's instead or Mom-mom's but not Daddy's. Now mind you i do NOT say anything negative about him infront of her. We have an IM that deals with the exchanges and the calls and emails. And i try to be positive when she comes back from there asking if she had fun. She won't talk about it. It does concern me but the counseling around her doesn't start till three, but she knows to tell me when something bad happens that she won't be in trouble. She has in the past told me when XH and OW fight and she doesn't like it and that she doesn't like going there when they fight. The IM has taken this up with XH and since then apparently it's been better. She only goes there every tuesday and every other sat to sunday

Over all she is doing well. She starts preschool in the fall and she is soooo excited about that. I can't belive how big they get so fast. How is everything with the FAMILY VON NOT????