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To answer your questions and fill in the blanks:
Married 1BH 2002
Joined military in 2002
Met 2BH/OM late 2003
Divorced 1BH 2004
XBH Is in the girls' lives. He pays child support and has them come visit him over the summers.
and I understand what you're saying. If I'm not someone I like, how do I expect BH to like me.
IC is free for me. Believe me I would like to be able to spend the money on the Harleys. Maybe in time.
Me 31
Him 26
Married 11/30/04
DD11
DD8
DS3
In a big ol mess...
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Why did you join the ARMY? I would like to be able to spend the money on the Harleys. Maybe in time. Did your husband ride before you did?
Me 34
WW 30
Abandoned Feb 17th 08, D-Day Aprl 27th 08.
Returned home Jul 7th, OC born 12/30/08
The FOG is clear, and we are in recovery.
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I joined the Army because my XH and I were broke, he couldn't hold a job and we had been living on and off with our parents in between jobs/apartments etc. He could not pass the ASVAB test to even get into the Army so I did. The Army guaranteed us a paycheck and a place to live.
What do you mean did my husband ride? before I did?
Me 31
Him 26
Married 11/30/04
DD11
DD8
DS3
In a big ol mess...
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What do you mean did my husband ride? before I did? You mentioned Harleys, I thought Motorcycle. I guess you meant Dr. Harley, I miss understood. I Have an issue with Motorcycle riders, Harley riders in particular. I sometimes forget that this site, and the name of a bike are the same. Please disregard my question. My apologies for any confusion.
Me 34
WW 30
Abandoned Feb 17th 08, D-Day Aprl 27th 08.
Returned home Jul 7th, OC born 12/30/08
The FOG is clear, and we are in recovery.
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LOL phew, usually I'M the one losing my mind! 
Me 31
Him 26
Married 11/30/04
DD11
DD8
DS3
In a big ol mess...
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