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Re: Wayward phrases karmasrose #2373442 05/14/10 08:06 AM
Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 1,688 Detroit, MI B barbiecat Member
barbiecat Member B Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 1,688 Detroit, MI	I got two for you.. My H filed D paperwork (without discussing it with me) and said that our priest told him; "Jeasus said it was OK to be selfish". He insisted that it was in the bible. Moral? People can convince themselves of anything. ANYTHING. A new one this morning (I thought of this thread, too-- to much MB on the brain, I guess).. After borrowing money from his famil and filing, -- without even discussing this with me-- (in a worlwind day event) he immediately left for Germany for a week-- would not talk or communicate- left me in the lurch- totally. He sent me an emial: "I (H) had the courage to file." He is so foggy that I am about to give up hope. Last edited by barbiecat; 05/14/10 08:08 AM. Me; W 46 Him; H 46 2 girls DD19 DD16 Dated/Married total 28 years. ..I am learning and working on myself.

Re: Wayward phrases karmasrose #2375338 05/18/10 05:40 AM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,094 Massachusetts O optimism Member
optimism Member O Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,094 Massachusetts	Originally Posted by karmasrose Chidiot Catchphrases I've got too much spare time on my hands. I thought I'd make a blog detailing all the crap waywards spew. Feel free to contribute. This is all I can really give, as I'm not married nor have I gone through an infidelity one way or another. So...enjoy. My hope is to condense all wayward phrases in an attempt to give you all: 1. A place to go to laugh at wayward crap 2. A list of what is said for new people so they know all waywards say this junk. Feel free to post here too, if you like. Preferably with things you were personally told. P.S. Chidiots = cheating idiots. I haven't read this thread so I hope I don't have a repeat here but: "The reason I feel safe being close friends with OM is that one of the reasons he and his wife broke up is that he is impotent." opt Me: 43 y.o. BFWH, D-day 11/11/09 (NC since 9/01) Divorce from WW final 9/16/10. Current Status: MB-based Marriage to Nature Girl 12/8/12 (first date on 12/11/10) Mine: S(16), D(11) NatureGirls: S(23), D(21) Another EA Story

Re: Wayward phrases optimism #2375356 05/18/10 07:12 AM
Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 2,617 S stillhere8126 Member
stillhere8126 Member S Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 2,617	Nope, thats a new one opt... Wow! BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.

Re: Wayward phrases stillhere8126 #2377052 05/21/10 01:56 AM
Joined: Oct 2008 Posts: 18 D dgtal Junior Member
dgtal Junior Member D Joined: Oct 2008 Posts: 18	A typical one: "He (the OM) told me he was divorced...I didn't know he was married"

Re: Wayward phrases dgtal #2417688 08/16/10 10:43 PM
Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 2,617 S stillhere8126 Member
stillhere8126 Member S Joined: Nov 2008 Posts: 2,617	More wayward phrases Someone was reading this archived thread...from ten years ago...just goes to shows the waywards dont change much... BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.

Re: Wayward phrases stillhere8126 #2417692 08/16/10 11:07 PM
Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 6,870 Maryland C ConstantProcess Member
ConstantProcess Member C Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 6,870 Maryland	OW to tempted sucker WH when trying to convince them they should leave W. "I could be good for you"

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