This Bimbo is starting to unravel.

She will take this to a new level (as low as you can imagine).

Think "Fatal Attraction". Like the idea of witness protection program. She is out to get you and your family. If you stay as dark and away from her as humanly possible the only target she has left is D+ck.

Since you will not be "cooperating" with her madness she will have to turn to him to meet all of her sick needs.

Prayers and blessings for your family.

I took your advice, SB. I asked my attorney to work with WHs attorney to get to the bottom of who's been sending OW the offending text messages.

I said I wouldn't get a fair shake with the allegations over my head. That it was in everyone's best interest to discover who is "harrassing" OW. That I would willingly provide my phone records and for my attorney to request copies of the offending texts, any police reports (WH told DD that the police were involved), and copies of her phone bills.

I asked that he work with WHs attorney to clear my name.

My attorney couldn't understand why I cared so much what they thought of me. I said it's important. Important enough that I don't want him to negotiate anything until we get this matter resolved.

You are a genius, SB.

Brilliantly played! Bimbo wants to push the divorce through and her vicious antics toward you are going to slow it down. Perfect!

OMG!!! ITA! This was a great move. I will bet any amount of money that she won't provide her phone records. We all know that there have been no calls. HA!

That is going to be one pi$$ed Ho when she hears about this. D!ckey Doo will suffer the Wrath of Ho.

OMG, I love this board.

For me, the issue would be one of safety for your STBX. This woman appears to be "loose around the edges" from what you have reported here, and her accusations of being harassed by you need to be looked at.

What we must assume is that HH is completely innocent - and I do believe she is. Going with that, then we have some possibilities here.

One is that there really IS someone harassing the OW. If that is the case, then that bears investigation, and it would seem to be very important that OW be looking into the ACTUAL perpetrator, and stop focusing on an innocent party. OW could be in real danger from another person, and be wasting valuable time on HH when in fact the dangerous person is making OW very paranoid and worried about HH - and making OW's safety be terribly reduced because she is watching herself in completely the wrong places. Whether or not we side with OW, this is a human being in danger, and that bears investigation.

Another possibility is OW is lying about being harassed for the purposes of attention, drama, vindictiveness, or to further pursuade her position with STBXH. This bears investigation so that D!ck can have the truth of his life before him - whether he chooses to look at it or not is up to him.

Still another possibility is that OW has psychological problems and BELIEVES, to her very core, that she is being stalked and harassed by HH. The investigation and proof of NO HARASSMENT is important so that others can see and understand that there is no validity to her claims. There may already be concern for this by others, and this process may open the course for those to step in and openly talk about things - who knows?

One more thought - D!ck himself may have concerns about the veracity of this harassment claim. He may desperately want to ask for the phone records, but may not have the testicular fortitude to stand up to this OW and go ahead and pursue the truth himself. This may actually allow him to break some of the stranglehold she has on him in a way that he never thought possible. You just never know - you might be throwing him the rope that saves him. From the text messages she has sent, I sense that all is not a love story in affairville.


But it is a wonderful thing that you are going to produce the documentation to exonerate yourself - it opens the table to a huge debate on the topic of this false accusation, and the judge might have some questions on the matter. You may be seen in a totally different light when you walk in the door with the proof in your hands. Strange how honesty combined with proof makes people back up and take a breath.


SB

D!ckey Dont.