I am very serious about it but I dont think I could afford the coaching sessions yet.W said she is remorseful but has fallen out of love with me.She is no longer attracted to me and she sees me as a family.Makes sense?She wants a separation to see if she really wants me when I am not by her side.
X ... I posted to you on your thread. The issue is you are not understanding the nature of her addiction.
Do you believe adultery is addiction? If yes, then replace (OM, toxic friends, new OM, divorce) with crack ... because that is all her behavior is about.
She doesn't want you today because you don't give her those giddy, romanticized, brain chemicals those loser friends of hers and OM can give her.
She doesn't like you because you are making her choice of drug difficult to obtain ... hence you are an enemy to her HIGH.
She wants to separate because getting those intoxicating feelings is more important than anything else on the planet today, and she knows she cannot do it in your presence.
Stop making excuses for her and please understand the nature of her emotions. She is an addict!!!!
Kill the affair, Plan A your butt off, be manly, a leader, her rock and just maybe she may get HIGH off you.
The goal is to be the better drug ... right now you want her to look at you and start feeling those feelings again. That can only happen by a stellar Plan A and being the man she fell in love with.
There will be a time and place for her to get repentant and remorseful ... that is after this sordid adultery of hers is dead.
Kill it any way you can and then be her stud ... Stellar Plan A is all you should focus on at this moment.
