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Re: Ds and I moved out, WXH moves back
SmilingWoman #2394029 06/21/10 07:38 PM
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Definitely agree with Schoolbus. We're lucky to have the bus; always well thought out words of wisdom.

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I think Khaki is nice....:)
That was a little thread jack/inside joke with Not2Fun, SW; sorry about that. She wanted me to paint my bedroom Passion Purple once WW moved out, lol.

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I now have wireless internet...ds will be happy when he gets home...and I've made a spot for the computer armoire I've wanted for 8 years and WHX would never let me have.
That's the spirit, SC! I know it sux that you have to be in the position you're in, but remember you didn't choose it, you're making lemon-aide from lemons. That's something to be proud of down the road; meanwhile WH will have a life of justifying bad choices. You're setting a good example for your son and that will shine through above all - including the atmosphere of either "home."

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Re: Ds and I moved out, WXH moves back
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Some men are peculiar--my H would most likely want to keep our house when we D. And I can just see him trying to get some young skank to move in and take my place.
Personally, I'd be happy to move out and start fresh--no lingering bad memories.
I think you got the good end of this one...

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Re: Ds and I moved out, WXH moves back
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Originally Posted by imanotherone
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Some men are peculiar--my H would most likely want to keep our house when we D. And I can just see him trying to get some young skank to move in and take my place.
Personally, I'd be happy to move out and start fresh--no lingering bad memories.
I think you got the good end of this one...

I know this is just a phase I have to get through....I eventually won't care a bit that he lives there....I am glad to be rid of it...memories PLUS the fact that the yard is huge and not easy to maintain. And being 1000 sf bigger than my new house, the old one cost more to heat/cool etc.

As far as him moving someone in....he will have to marry her to do that...:) Our divorce decree stipulates no overnight guests of opposite sex when ds is there.
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