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This minor variation of a classic WW-line was said to me by my cheating wife:

"My relationship with XXXX (her OM) has nothing to do with us or our divorce!"

Yeah, I guess the fact that she said it on the phone from his bedroom was just "a coincidence".

Yeah, I guess the fact that she moved in with him BEFORE EVEN FILING was just "happenstance".

Yeah, I guess the fact that she received a ring from him and had accepted an affairage proposal MONTHS BEFORE either divorce was complete was just "unrelated".

Yeah, I guess the fact that she had secretly entered into the co-adulterous affair MONTHS BEFORE 95% of her marital complaints & discontents were voiced to me was just "an accidental oversight".

Yeah, I guess the fact that she never made a single attempt to contact or say goodbye to any of the family or close friends she sold-out & has for years remained far too ashamed to face any of them was just "normal behavior".

Yeah, I guess the fact that she did all in her power to conceal, deny, deflect attention, deceive, and [censored]-cover the affair BEFORE AND SINCE was just "circumstantial".

Yeah, I guess the fact that she filed for divorce RIGHT AFTER OMW's dumped him and OM/WW announced their engagement at a holiday party was just "convenient timing".

faint

Yeah, I guess..... uhuh


xWW:
Secret LTA w/ thrice married OM at her workplace; EA/PA starts ~ 2005-6
Files & completes D - 2007, OM/OMW#3 D - 2007, Affairage - immediately thereafter
Disappears in 2006 w/o even a goodbye to anyone, Never a paragraph of real truth ever spoken
Me/xBH:
M "for life", Suspicions (denied) & desperate Plan A latter-half '06
1st D-day 1/07, full truth D-day 7/08 (all via 3rd parties)
NC w/ xWW 8/08-date, better off w/o unrepentant vileness, betrayal, & rampant deceit in my life anymore
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Chidiots

You guys just keep making more work for me! rotflmao


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.
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