DefCon,

I think your current perspective is best. It was a hurtful experience but all indicators are that she was twisting ex's tail, but did not think about the consequences. She did tell you about it and I think you reaching the correct conclusion. You are not foolish to continue, you would be foolish to end this marriage based on this misstep.

Glad we all could be of help.

God Bless,

JL