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Bugs,
OK, outside to the woodshed girlie, I've got the switch. No, the 2x4.
D@mn you Bugs. Look at what you wrote. After what you have been through with this idiot over the last 3 years, how can you even question this? And I know that DSS did not say that you didn't care - those are Drac's words.
Ignore this arsehole and continue with your plans to get the picture at the dance. Get the picture on your camera, phone, whatever, take it to Walmart (or wherever) and have them printed out in duplicate. Then get 2 nice picture albums for DSS and his girlfriend, put the pictures in and give one to DSS and the girl. DSS will appreciate it, will know you care, and will have something to remember his first homecoming.
That Drac just p!$$e$ me off.
You did nothing wrong.
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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Bugsy:
You were right. Drac told DSS WHAT to do. "Get Bugsy HERE to take pictures!"
And you, appropriately, declined to do that. You have no reason to go to Drac's house besides pick up and drop off of DSS And DD.
What happened AFTER you dropped DSS off is not your responsibility. And Drac is trying to transfer that to you. Therefore, the little dig about "He Cares, and you don't."
It was YOUR weekend with DSS, and Drac didn't have enough concern to contact YOU to coordinate activities.
Leave it, as just another example of Drac's "Me-first" attitude.
LG
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You did everything right, Bugs. Sometimes are kids just get hurt. There is no way to avoid it. DSS knows you love him. You never walked out of his life and he confides in you. (((bugs))
Faith
me: FWW/BS 52 H: FWH/BS 49
DS 30
DD 21
DS 15
OCDS 8
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