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Quit starting new threads and stick to just one. This makes it easier to follow the developments in your situation. Starting new threads is confusing to those trying to give you advice.
You have kids with this woman?
If not, after 8 years of being together, there is little reason to save things with no kids in the picture and less than 2 years of marriage.
My guess is that you guys lived together for a long time, decided to get married �because it�s the right thing to do� and she discovered that being married didn�t magically fix the things she was unhappy about in your relationship.
Why do you feel you can�t do better than this woman, who has cheated on you with less than two years of marriage? Why waste your life on such a person?
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From all evidence that I can find and people I can talk to and from what I can see the affair is not on going, both in person or online or phone etc. I do still believe she feels something for him as from what I have been able to tell he ended it not her. This was about 1 month ago. over this time she has gotten worse with me though due to the pressure I applied in order to end the affair and the exposure I gave it, but i dont regret that. My wife sleeps in the other room now and has for over a week. In this time there has been very little opportunity for her to do much away from me so I dont believe it corresponds with any events. What has happened here is that your wife has simply taken her affair further underground. I guarantee you if you hired a PI you would find the affair is still on. THAT is the key, if this can be saved, which is doubtful. Does she work with the OM? Who is the OM and is he married? Your best chance at saving this is to get real evidence of the affair and expose it. I see no other chance.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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