And that includes having a recorder on the BHs person at all times.

You must THINK when you are engaged in a situation where there is somebody possibly going to file false charges to move you out of the way. Heck my xwh did this to me. I had to constantly watch my back with him.

Here is who you must be. This guy.
This awesomely cool guy who is not afraid of a wayward or a posom (or posow, which I pronounce po sow, as in poor pig).

James Bond. James uses the latest gadgetry to get intel on his enemy (the affair and the posom). He would not hesitate to use a measely eblaster or var. He would consider that minimal and not bat an eye to do it. He would get every bit of keylogging information he could and more!

James also is one who could melt the heart of a ww because HE is a manly guy who STANDS UP FOR WHAT HE BELIEVES IN. If he is on a mission, HE COMPLETES THE MISSION. Your mission? To KILL the affair! To end the affair.

James also never cries or begs or pleads when he is dealing with a woman. Usually a double agent spy type. Kinda like a ww huh? One who would sleep with him and then want to knock him off and then run away to the enemy and talk. Hmmm...sounds familiar. Nah, he would not ever cry or beg. He is COOL at all times. Knows how to engage a woman in conversation, knows how to meet emotional needs of the woman.

and when it comes to exposure? Killing the bad guy? He does it with ease and calm. He carefully plans his kill shots on the affair. He precisely aims and targets with exposure shots, all parties he needs to inform. The omw, family, friends, and employer (if need be) and also his ww's friends, family, and employer (if a work affair). He times it perfectly and EXECUTES it!

After he kills the affair with exposure, he returns home and greets his wife (aka double agent) and greets her with a kiss, and that knowing confident smile. He is confident. Always looks, smells, and appears attractive. She suddenly finds this overwhelmingly attractive.

In the end, even if the double agent ww learns of exposure, she will rant and rave, but in the end, who is to ever fight with James? She knows her man fought for her, and killed the bad guy (the affair).

So BE this guy!

And you just can't bump this thread enough. Especially this week, for some reason.

GENTLEMEN! YOUR WAYWARD WIFE IS NOT GOING TO RESPECT YOU IF YOU MAKE IT EASY FOR HER TO KNOCK BOOTS WITH ANOTHER MAN!! STEP UP TO THE PLATE AND TAKE BACK YOUR WIFE AND MARRIAGE!!

Go to page one of this thread and begin reading. AND LEARN.

Took a while to find this thread, but bump for Stillwaiting. Not gonna let up on you and not gonna give up on you.

Happy Birthday

Bump for tdf

BWs need to read this too. No BS should be a doormat.

Men you need to make sure you follow this advice. As soon as you find out ALWAYS carry a Recorder on your Person. It could save your life as you know it.

My Brother told me his wife was crazy. She took off with his child. I sent him money to get a video camera and a recorder. I told him to always have it going.

His now Ex came home after taking his daughter out of state. She was acting strange and then she took his daughter some where. Later that day child services showed up at his house along with the police. They told him he was being investigated for molesting his daughter. He did not back down with the police or CS. He said he had proof he was innocent.

They told him to leave his home so he did. The recordings he made saved him. They found after doing tests on his daughter that he was innocent.

Don't shrink and be scared of WW. Carry protection and stand up for yourselves.

CARRY A RECORDER!!!