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I could try getting his phone again while he's sleeping...but I have to assume he now knows to delete anything incriminating. Try and get it and take a look! Did you get any intel on the OW?
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I'm near Houston as well! H works downtown.
No intel yet on OW. I will have to get that phone and see if I can at least get her last name. I could kick myself! Why oh why did those fwds not go through?! grrrrr....
H does not have her listed as a friend on FB.
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H does not have her listed as a friend on FB. I figured that. What can you tell by looking at her friends? Can you copy and paste her friends names into a WORD doc for safe keeping? And do you see anyone there who looks like a husband? And her parents?
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No... I wasn't able to find her on facebook since I don't know her last name. :-( I looked on H's in case he had her listed but he did not.
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Do you have the OW's cell phone #? If so, go do a reverse cell phone search and get her full name and city. white pages
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I thought I had it because I thought I had the fwds. Now I only remember it is either 280 or 208 area code.
BUT...I am now checking H's friends to see if I can find her by looking at his friend's friends.
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OK: I'm pretty darn sure now I know who she is on facebook. Her profile is set to private, however. White pages don't give you a dang phone # unless you pay, right? But...the city and state matches 208 area code...in Idaho.
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Do I send her a message??? If so, what do I say?
I could wait and try and get a phone # but not sure if I can.
AND...it's possible it's the same woman as the earlier sex-texting... very possible.
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OK: I'm pretty darn sure now I know who she is on facebook. Her profile is set to private, however. White pages don't give you a dang phone # unless you pay, right? But...the city and state matches 208 area code...in Idaho. Go look up her #'s in whitepages, there is no charge. And see if you can find a husband's name. Also look her up on peoplefinder.com and see if there is a husband listed. Can you see her friends on facebook? I would copy and paste them all into a word doc.
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Do I send her a message??? If so, what do I say?
I could wait and try and get a phone # but not sure if I can.
AND...it's possible it's the same woman as the earlier sex-texting... very possible. Get her #s and find out if she is married.
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There is no info on FB whether she's married or not. I will copy and paste her friends. H is not listed, but that is to be expected I'm sure. Why does white pages seem to want to charge me for the dang info for phone #'s and such? Am I doing something wrong?
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There was an address and phone # on people finder but no info as to whether or not there was a Mr. OW. The phone # was disconnected.
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I did discover that she used to be a friend on facebook with H, but not any longer. Now - he suspended FB awhile back but apparently unsuspended it recently because it is back up. I know if I ask him he will say it is because he is now looking for a new job... his consulting gig is up where he's at in 3 months.
SO: it looks like she knows the same people from high school. Therefore, she very well could be the sex text woman. Also, H has visited where she lives (on business - supposedly) twice recently... but it's been over a month since last time.
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AND...since H visited OW's city twice in the past 4 months, it is possible it was physical!
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AND...since H visited OW's city twice in the past 4 months, it is possible it was physical! Yep! Can you look on anywho.com and whitepages.com to see if you can get a good landline phone # on them? Also, I would sneak that phone again and see if you can get her #.
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The only # I could find in searching was the disconnected one. I will see what I can do with getting the phone again. (If he hasn't deleted all evidence of her. I'm betting he has.... but doesn't mean I can't try.)
Meanwhile, a friend of mine is going to try and friend her on facebook. It's a longshot, but we'll see. No one from my area: someone from the area where they both grew up so she may think it's an old high school friend. (H doesn't know this friend at all.)
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Where does live? What state?
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Mel,
She's in Idaho - Boise area.
I did as you said and copied her friends list. It really looks like she isn't married - divorced maybe. Her family is pretty darn good at making all their stuff private! Let's just say her name is Jane Adams Doe. There are no Adams as friends of hers. Any Does are private.
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Thanks, Faithful! Pipl was helpful! I did find a husband or what might be an exhusband. Hmmm.... The problem is, the only thing I can find on him is the same address and phone info and the phone is disconnected.
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