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Keep going girl! We know you can do this! Just stay dark start doing some things for you, because you deserve it!   |  |  |  
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Joined:  Nov 2010 Posts: 32 Member |  
| Member Joined:  Nov 2010 Posts: 32 | 
Thanks  I just try not to think about it, that helps. 
 age 59(me) 53(wh) no children together
 children (mine) 3 (wh)2  all grown
 Affair started Oct 2009 co worker
 D#1 Feb,2010 (wh)wanted to start all over
 D#2 July  same woman age early 40's 3 teenagers
 ws changed jobs Aug no longer coworkers
 D#3 Sept 2010 same woman
 Left to live same OW 09/27 - present
 found out cell phone records
 Plan A Nov 1st really month sooner
 Plan B Nov 16
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Joined:  May 2010 Posts: 1,879 Member |  
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If I was you I would... Get my hair all done Get a new out-fit Go out with friends Read books Exercise and hang out with family  I would keep myself soo busy that I would forget about WH   |  |  |  
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