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peaches,
On another thread you used the term "monkeyho".
I love this so much I might just have to steal it!
BW Married 1989 His PA 2003-2006 2 kids.
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Neak, thank you for this thread. My H's A with my sister years ago falls into the "so low" category. And yes, there were a couple people here who jumped in say that I should dump my H.
When we counseled with Steve Harley, I asked him if there was something particularly wrong with this man that he could have an A with my own sister. He told me "yes, he has a pulse."
Affairs can happen between anyone, anytime as long as proper boundaries aren't in place. And all the actions of a wayward spouse are cruel and abusive.
FBW in recovery
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Lol, that Steve is funny! And very right, too. 
A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner. ~ English proverb Neak's Story
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