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I really, really need to hang out with my friends more, and not sit around and "mope" around about a guy who has NO freaking clue what he had. I came out of my shell tonight, and was open about where I am. My friends LOVE me. (I've been lovin' myself too.)

My new theme song...... grin

Time For Me To Fly

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D-yr fall 06-fall 07
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Him-several affairs, last one 3/2011
Divorced filed 3/2011, final 3/2012

Formerly "Mopey".
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After a 4 yr FR, it became CLEAR to me of what you can look for in a FR. And that is the absence of POJA, and/or if your spouse tramples on your boundaries. If someone is not willing to do POJA with you, and they don't respect your boundaries, imo, the relationship is doomed.
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I'm wide awake, and everyone's busy, so I'm surfing the net at 10:45 pm.

I love Utube.

If you're ever down, and could use a little comfort, play this.........(waaaayy better with a glass of wine :))

In the Arms of the Angels

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After a 4 yr FR, it became CLEAR to me of what you can look for in a FR. And that is the absence of POJA, and/or if your spouse tramples on your boundaries. If someone is not willing to do POJA with you, and they don't respect your boundaries, imo, the relationship is doomed.
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If you need a laugh, try "Onyxia Raid Wipe." Or "Devils and Angels", a snippet of a family feud episode with Steve Harvey.

The first one's about Warcraft, and the language is salty, but it's about how an entire party was wiped out because ONE PERSON was stupid.

The ranting is rather funny though.


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.
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I saw that raid wipe before. Did you ever see "Lee___roy Jenkins?"

PS Try just Leroy Jenkins lol

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Originally Posted by MyJourney
..My new theme song...... grin

Time For Me To Fly

Was singing that in the shower in 1982. Lol. refering to heartache of course from first marriage.


Still an awesome tune, from "you can tuna piano, but you can't tna fish" REO Speedwagon. Those guys are gettin up there, but they still have a Webpage.

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ACtually, I haven't yet. Gonna go check that out now.


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.
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OMG...LOL...I just returned from making coffee (and oreos) and saw the last two posts! Leeerrooyyyy Jenkins! Hahahaha.....that makes me want to play again!

My husband taught me to play W.o.W., and I was never great at it because I didn't learn on my own. I was a hunter and I had a pet cat. Once, I went with him and his friends in a dungeon, and I wasn't paying attention to my cat. My husband said "where's my cat?" and at that moment, the cat starting running back towards us with EVERYTHING he had just aggroed!

Good times. laugh

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After a 4 yr FR, it became CLEAR to me of what you can look for in a FR. And that is the absence of POJA, and/or if your spouse tramples on your boundaries. If someone is not willing to do POJA with you, and they don't respect your boundaries, imo, the relationship is doomed.
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That might have been the onxyia raid wipe vid she mentioned.

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Was singing that in the shower in 1982. Lol. refering to heartache of course from first marriage.


LOL....I heard it in the car today and cranked it up. I'll be singing it in the shower tonight!

How bout this one..... grin

Pray for You



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After a 4 yr FR, it became CLEAR to me of what you can look for in a FR. And that is the absence of POJA, and/or if your spouse tramples on your boundaries. If someone is not willing to do POJA with you, and they don't respect your boundaries, imo, the relationship is doomed.
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I've caused my share of raid wipes...
Good times.

Do you two play W.o.W.?


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After a 4 yr FR, it became CLEAR to me of what you can look for in a FR. And that is the absence of POJA, and/or if your spouse tramples on your boundaries. If someone is not willing to do POJA with you, and they don't respect your boundaries, imo, the relationship is doomed.
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I was a healer Pally, then a Protection Pally,"Tank".. I loved bein the tank, lol. I could solo The ramparts.

There were better players out there, and I could not keep up. I started a Guild that lasted over a year, but it felt like i was still in high school lol.

It was fun while it lasted, but just took too much time.

PS Don't play anymore no, it was too consuming. Still have friends I met there though

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Ya, it's a serious time sucker.

Once, when I had spyware on my H's computer, I clocked him at 120 hours in one week playing W.O.W. Wow.

It is a fun game though.


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Formerly "Mopey".
http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2013149&page=1

After a 4 yr FR, it became CLEAR to me of what you can look for in a FR. And that is the absence of POJA, and/or if your spouse tramples on your boundaries. If someone is not willing to do POJA with you, and they don't respect your boundaries, imo, the relationship is doomed.
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What realm did you play in?


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Formerly "Mopey".
http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2013149&page=1

After a 4 yr FR, it became CLEAR to me of what you can look for in a FR. And that is the absence of POJA, and/or if your spouse tramples on your boundaries. If someone is not willing to do POJA with you, and they don't respect your boundaries, imo, the relationship is doomed.
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Teilhard de Chardin..“We are not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience.” ...Sounds about right to me.
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I chose a pally because that is how I saw myself..Lol "A preist in a tin can"

Kinda mans challange, to be both a holy healer and a destroyer at the same time.

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Formerly "Mopey".
http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2013149&page=1

After a 4 yr FR, it became CLEAR to me of what you can look for in a FR. And that is the absence of POJA, and/or if your spouse tramples on your boundaries. If someone is not willing to do POJA with you, and they don't respect your boundaries, imo, the relationship is doomed.
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Allways kept my healing gear, but never made it to duel spec. It was a couple years ago.

Learned a lot about how people can get caught up in the fantasy though. Guildies were all kinds of people, most would sell your time out real cheap, get what they wanted, and move on with no honor.

Was offered a lot of guild positions, but stayed in my own, I could not give up the dream and my aspirations, Lol.

I wasn't hard enough, and expected evryone to grow a conscience. Which of course, lol, they didn't have to. That wasn't what WOW was about.

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I chose a hunter so my pet would take the aggro.

I liked the healers. My husband had several alts, and a priest was one of them. He always had to heal my pet because I never remembered to. He took that game so seriously, I think he was seriously thinking I was abusive to that cat.

This is probably going to sound terrible, but my Hunter's name was Camiltoe, and my cat's name was Wedgie. I use to get a lot of laughs over that. If you remember what a Horde hunter looks like, you could see where I got that name...

Worked for me.

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Formerly "Mopey".
http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2013149&page=1

After a 4 yr FR, it became CLEAR to me of what you can look for in a FR. And that is the absence of POJA, and/or if your spouse tramples on your boundaries. If someone is not willing to do POJA with you, and they don't respect your boundaries, imo, the relationship is doomed.
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I was co-founder of a guild once several years ago. They've all since moved to another realm and started a new guild that's pretty big now.

If you ever play again, lemme know.

My husband started playing again when he moved out a few months ago.

He was a.d.d.i.c.t.e.d, and probably is again. I remember during d-year I would trigger bad over that game (he left me for a girl he met online in StarWars Galaxy, BEFORE HE EVEN MET HER) and I would cry, and he kept playing, and playing, and playing. It wasn't until after I clocked him at 120 hours in one week that he stopped playing.


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Separated 10/2010
Him-several affairs, last one 3/2011
Divorced filed 3/2011, final 3/2012

Formerly "Mopey".
http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2013149&page=1

After a 4 yr FR, it became CLEAR to me of what you can look for in a FR. And that is the absence of POJA, and/or if your spouse tramples on your boundaries. If someone is not willing to do POJA with you, and they don't respect your boundaries, imo, the relationship is doomed.
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Lol

I put on my healing gear and was in 3 man arena, with two dranai girls from malaysia. They were all in epic gear and I healed. One was a Ret warrior and one a hunter. Her cat ussualy saved the day, but we planned it that way too lol.

I miss my friends on there, but I don't miss the guild drama, or the backstabbing little 12 year olds. I especaily don't miss instance appointments that people did not come to, when working people would rush home from work, all excited, just to be let down.

The best times were the fun times relaxed and carefree. Some of the quests were a hoot also.

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