Though He forgives us, He is still going to hold each person accountable for accepting His gift. Anyone who does not accept His gift will suffer the consequences of not accepting His gift. He is a good God but He is also a JUST God.<P>Sorry if I came across to strong with the above statement. He will punish as He punished David by having strife in his house , those who did not get on the ark, etc.<P>------------------<BR>God Bless,<BR>Rob<P><BR>

I am sooooo proud of myself! I have several times stood up and said that not only is she (my best friend, the OW) to blame but my H and lest not forget myself! It takes two to either make or break a marriage. Ok, I have to say that I have been extremely angry with her and have been questioning myself for a long time as to why but I have finally come to the conclusion that it is a matter of her "acting" as though she was my friend, taking in my confidences and then screwing with my H. It struck me as wrong. But that is HER problem and she will have to live with it, just as I will have to live with the idea that there was something wrong with my marriage for her to even get in between us. And also, why was he so weak that he couldn't say no? I am sure he could have just as well said no as yes, but we were ALL vulnerable at that point in our lives!<P>------------------<BR>Chick's <BR>Bren<P>You won't see things until your ready to not be blind!<P><BR>