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Well I installled eblaster yesterday. She was on the computer until 12:35am. Checked the report and emails IM's etc. Nothing of any concern. Maybe he was working or something but I will keep watching it. Eblaster is really cool. Download went great and it started working immediately. My kids were on it also and nothing bad there either. Go figure... Did not fight with my wife. I am working Plan A and got a start on reading SAA again. Taking it slow til all of the plan is in place.
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Can you get to her cell phone bill? And were you able to glean her password for her yahoo email account?
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I see some passwords which I believe are yahoo account. I'm pretty close I think to reading it right to get the password looking at key strokes. Still figuring the eblaster out. Her cell bill goes thru her work.
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I see some passwords which I believe are yahoo account. I'm pretty close I think to reading it right to get the password looking at key strokes. Still figuring the eblaster out. Her cell bill goes thru her work. ********, this report should allow you to scroll down to see exactly what she typed (it should also give you the option to 'jump' to it.) It shouldn't be difficult to see her password to yahoo. I'm not sure what you're looking at.
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I see some passwords which I believe are yahoo account. I'm pretty close I think to reading it right to get the password looking at key strokes. Still figuring the eblaster out. Her cell bill goes thru her work. ******, this report should allow you to scroll down to see exactly what she typed (it should also give you the option to 'jump' to it.) It shouldn't be difficult to see her password to yahoo. I'm not sure what you're looking at. I wonder too. EBlaster would show you that she went to Yahoo, that she clicked on 'open mail' and then what she typed after that which would be her password.
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I'll check it out here in a while. Thanks
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Also --
You should consider putting a voice activated recorder in her car. Under the drivers seat. She very likely talks to OM on her way to or from work. Or possibly confides in a girlfriend.
There is a whole section here on Spying.
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I've thought about that. Also putting my GPS in there so I can see where she goes!
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In the reports I received from Eblaster she never went on yahoo mail last night. I'll be watching!
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Can I change my user name? I think if my wife looks on here she can figure out who I am.
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Changed my name on here. Sorry to confuse anyone. Just safer at this point. Thanks
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Night 2 with eblaster. Nothing to speak of. Put GPS in car while I was out of town yesterday. Pulled it out last night and she never went anywhere she shouldn't have. Either she is very good or she may not be seeing or talking to OM. Still waiting for her to log on to yahoo mail so I can get the password.
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Is it wrong to have S with WS the day before she is leaving the house. I am in Plan A and possibly have negotiated a NC rule. I want her to have good memories not bad ones. She is the one calling me on my cell now where I would always be the one calling her before, usually just for idle talk. She is not calling alot but more than she has in the last two weeks. She said that she loved me this morning???? If I could figure this crap out I would be rich!
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Is it wrong to have S with WS the day before she is leaving the house. Where is she going?
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To an apartment about 1 1/2 miles from the house.
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Am I wrong to think that maybe Plan A is having an effect? Maybe at least questioning herself? She seemed to enjoy our IM together. Nervous about going home but I'll just keep doing what I have been doing--All 4 steps. Everones help on this site is extremely helpful. Can't please everyone all the time but I can please some, some of the time!
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Well she moved out this weekend. Get this no one really wanted to come and help her so I had to help with the heavy stuff. She asked me to come over to her new apt. in the morning to have coffee before my daughter and I had to leave for practice. Conversation was tense but not bad. Lots of tears by both of us when we said goodbye. Kids arn't saying much but we are keeping the communication open to them. Still nothing of concern as far as my reports on eblaster but I am exploring any opportunity to find out what is really going on.
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fishing,
I am sorry that she has left but now is the time to take care of yourself, she has made her bed, let her lie in it......
You need to take care of the kids, I don't know if I would have helped her move from your lives together, but it shows what kind of man you are and it sounds like you are a compassionate guy but don't let her use you anymore........
While you are plan Aing from a distance don't foret to take care of yourself, make sure the kids are alright give them permission to ask questions if they have them. be honest with them........
Time will clear your head and see thing for what they are, give yourself that time.......
jessi
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Married 25 years, live together for 2, dated 2 years before that.....
DS 23, DS 25
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Still nothing of concern as far as my reports on eblaster but I am exploring any opportunity to find out what is really going on. This is the key, Fishing! Can you hire a PI to watch her for a couple of days?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Thanks jessi, I am working on myself every day. The kids are my high priority. As for her using me I'll do my best to say no or atleast to excuse myself from whatever it is. I'll be nice but I plan on keeping myself busy. Everything seems to be about her and her feelings. What she forgets is that I have feelings also! Open and Honest is the best receipe.
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