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DH = Darling (or Dear) Husband.

If the couple reconciles uses the MB principles, this is often the net result.


Preach the Gospel every day. When necessary, use words.
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"Dear Husband" indicates that she no longer thinks of him as a "WH" or even "FWH." I've been known to use that nomenclature myself. My H is just my DH now.

That's what a good dose of recovery will do...


Me BS 61
Him FWS 63
Married 40 years
D-Day 6/30/06
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6/08 Recovering nicely. Anything is possible!
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I've been able to figure out most of them, but this one has me stumped...

ILYBNILWY


Me- BW (26)
H- WS (29)- ongoing EA
M- 8 years
Kids: DS7 & DD5
Most recent attempt to get NC: 9/8/10
Currently: one sided Plan A
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I love you but not in love with you


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I didn't see TOS.
A post was deleted due to TOS (not mine, lol). I was just curious about it, but NBD.

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Originally Posted by optimism
I didn't see TOS.
A post was deleted due to TOS (not mine, lol). I was just curious about it, but NBD.

TOS = Terms of Service

It's standard online forumspeak.


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thanks fred.


Me: 43 y.o. BFWH, D-day 11/11/09 (NC since 9/01)
Divorce from WW final 9/16/10.
Current Status: MB-based Marriage to Nature Girl 12/8/12 (first date on 12/11/10)
Mine: S(16), D(11)
NatureGirls: S(23), D(21)
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How 'bout CWH and PC?

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Me: BH, 39 (and no longer jobless; just broke)
Her: WW, 33
Never lived together
Married 6 years; together 10 years
2 young kids (DD3 and DD1.5)
Her EA: Fall '08
She moves out of our home: 10/16/09
Informally separated
D-day: 01/22/10
D-day #2: 06/28/10
Exposed to 12 of my WW's and the OM's friends and family members plus all of my immediate family members and some extended family
In plan A at Dr. Bill Harley's advice since May '10
Have talked with lawyer twice; hate it
Her region is a 50/50 custody area
OM stopped working with her 08/10
Wife has NOT filed

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CWH & PC...

Where & how were these used?
Not common abbreviations...


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Currently Wayward Husband?

Personal Computer? Politically Correct?


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Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8.
Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010

If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.
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What is a DS or DD?

Such as:
DS-5 DD-Born Feb 2010


Me: 24 WW: 25 Married: April 13th 2007 Kids: None
OM1: Discovered 7 Jan 2011 / OM2: Discovered Aug 2010
Wife is currently deployed to Afghanistan.
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Darling son.

Darling daughter.


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Sorry folks, I thought I was savvy... but what is t/j?

Often seems to be used when someone is making a personal reference or telling a story.


BS: Me, 27
WS: Her, 24
EA: October
PA: 11/22/10
Moved out 12/3/10
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Originally Posted by StuckWaiting
Sorry folks, I thought I was savvy... but what is t/j?

Often seems to be used when someone is making a personal reference or telling a story.


Thread Jacking. A distraction from the original post.


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Perfect! Thanks Prisca.


BS: Me, 27
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Last edited by stretch123; 03/22/11 12:12 PM. Reason: moved to personal thread

Me: 43
ExWW: 44
Married 16yrs. 4 children

EA (ExWW): May-Nov 2009 + Aug-Dec 2010
D-DAY JAN 30, 2011
Exposure: FEB 7, 2011
Contact Again: Apr 25, 2011
Divorce Final Sept 2012

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That post really belongs on your own thread. This thread is for spelling out acronyms, not really for discussing personal cases.


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What is R ?

As in, "You and WW should stop talking about R."


Me: 43
ExWW: 44
Married 16yrs. 4 children

EA (ExWW): May-Nov 2009 + Aug-Dec 2010
D-DAY JAN 30, 2011
Exposure: FEB 7, 2011
Contact Again: Apr 25, 2011
Divorce Final Sept 2012

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Depends on the context. Used the way you've given it, "R" refers to "Relationship."

It can also refer to "Recovery," as in "my spouse and I want to R the M."


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not directly related to acronyms, but where do ya'll get all the "smileys" and little character hitting each other over the head with a 2x4??

I'm new at this..


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Don’t let anyone capture you with empty philosophies and high-sounding nonsense that come from human thinking and from the spiritual powers of this world, rather than from Christ.

Col. 2:8 (NLT)
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