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Re: Wife isn't sure she wants it to work
Steve270 #2514073 05/29/11 06:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve270
Thanks for the help. She was going to miss most of the week of work due to the funeral. Instead of going back at the end of the week she is taking the whole week off and she and I are going in together to talk to the principle. This will happen whether she decides to quit or not.

ok, but you do understand that this won't solve the problem, don't you? One of them has to leave the job if you want to have any hope of saving your marriage. That is STEP ONE and there won't be a step TWO unless that happens.

And did you get ahold of the OM's wife? I have asked this repeatedly and you haven't answered. This step CANNOT be skipped.

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Re: Wife isn't sure she wants it to work
MelodyLane #2514077 05/29/11 07:19 PM
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And did you get ahold of the OM's wife? I have asked this repeatedly and you haven't answered. This step CANNOT be skipped.
He hasn't answered that Mel, you're right.

I am concerned about this Steve. Please confirm that you have contacted his wife. I am getting the impression that you feel that you've disclosed to your wayward wife (who is in an affair, need I say more) that you know about her affair partner, and now that you've done so, you think she'll 'do the right thing'. Not enough by half, Steve.

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