The real trial starts when the kids reach adolescents. She needs to realize that those teenagers will write their own history. And when they tell their friends that mommy is a cheating skank. Wait till they start manipulating you for money. You will be the skank that they can get what they want from you because you are so swamped in guilt. Their relationships will likely be rockier because of your excellent teaching on how to be deceptive, manipulative, I mean why should they live the straight and narrow, when mom showed them that when the feeling moves them, just go heals up for the guy (any guy). Of course they are gonna have some depression and abandonment issues. I know what will make them feel better, A baby as a teenager. This way they can have love that won't abandon them. But they were taught by mom that kids come second to an orgasm, so of course they still need to be young and party. A great heritage you're setting up for them. Mother of the year!