SO I AM REALLY ASKING FOR HELP

How do I be less of an enabeler

She is gone for the holiday wknd she wanted to take one of the kids w her and I would not let her expose the children to the ow. Should I have made her take my 9yo.........I don't think the children should ever b exposed


Me: BH 40
WW 39
S13, D9
Married 15 yrs together 19!!!
D Day July 11,2011
WW in P.A. with OW
WW wants D
Almost done
Former Tryingtofeelgood